I Think My Marriage Is Over
I and my wife are married for 4 years. In the first year, everything used to be fine by her, and I used to be enough, but after that time I fell unable to attend her demands. I am an engineer and all the expenses in the house are my charge, even though she works and have a pretty good salary. Besides the entire home duties are on my charge too, I cook, I clean the house, I put the trash out and the only duty that she is responsible is to do the dishes, but since we have a maid in our home none of those duties are very hard.
The work if hard, but it is not the actual reason I fell this way, the problem is that, no matter how hard I try, no matter what I do, it is never enough. Things last month got worse, and I can assume my part of the fault, after I bought her a puppy. She always dreamt of this dog and I never agreed with it, but since I was unable to make her happy, I did it. After this all hell broke loose on me. First of all, she did not like the dog, she said I forced her to accept the dog and she could not choose puppy. It was to be a surprise, how could she choose it? And the dog was purchase 100% by her specifications.
Now this dog made our apartment too small, this is a 3 bedroom apartment for us and still it is small? She does not even let me kiss her, when she arrives home everything is a reason for complain. She says she has to think about all the issues, but solving the issues is up to me, and most the issues are demands. I have already tried everything to please her. Special foods, jewels, a travel to India, a new car and now the puppy. I am starting to doubt that she even love me. What kind of woman, after receiving a diamond ring for our 4th wedding anniversary refuses to even kiss me? During the night I used to hug her, but even this bothers her. I am not a monster, women seem to find me attractive, I am at good shape, I have a good job, but I am running out of resources. I don’t even know if I love her, of if I love the person she used to be. Or if it is fear of being alone. . .
The work if hard, but it is not the actual reason I fell this way, the problem is that, no matter how hard I try, no matter what I do, it is never enough. Things last month got worse, and I can assume my part of the fault, after I bought her a puppy. She always dreamt of this dog and I never agreed with it, but since I was unable to make her happy, I did it. After this all hell broke loose on me. First of all, she did not like the dog, she said I forced her to accept the dog and she could not choose puppy. It was to be a surprise, how could she choose it? And the dog was purchase 100% by her specifications.
Now this dog made our apartment too small, this is a 3 bedroom apartment for us and still it is small? She does not even let me kiss her, when she arrives home everything is a reason for complain. She says she has to think about all the issues, but solving the issues is up to me, and most the issues are demands. I have already tried everything to please her. Special foods, jewels, a travel to India, a new car and now the puppy. I am starting to doubt that she even love me. What kind of woman, after receiving a diamond ring for our 4th wedding anniversary refuses to even kiss me? During the night I used to hug her, but even this bothers her. I am not a monster, women seem to find me attractive, I am at good shape, I have a good job, but I am running out of resources. I don’t even know if I love her, of if I love the person she used to be. Or if it is fear of being alone. . .
By:
mrponciano
Age:
31-35
,
Male
