I have been married for five years. My husband has not worked at all for the last three. He worked only part time the second year we were married. He pays no bills and our house is not very clean. He hoards toys and spends all day re-painting hot wheel cars. I come home for lunch and find him still in the bed at noon. It will be my third divorce, my second husband revealed to me he was bi-sexual and unfaithful in the 5th year of our marriage and my first divorce was over 20 years ago. Still I don't want to be a 3 time loser so I stay in this one. I am so unhappy, I cannot believe I messed up again.