I Love Her...but
In reality I do love my mother in law, but she is all over the place. She will be great one time I talk with her and in a deep depression the next time. She has so many mood swings that it is hard to deal with her sometimes.
Yet, I want to help her. I am afraid that one day she will need to move in with us. I know it will be the right thing to do, but it will be a huge challenge also.