I Remind Her Of My Dad
I went home to visit back East back in Sept, it's now Dec., I live in California now. Been here 3 yrs. She basically told me I was the reason she stayed in her miserable marriage that I was the reason she was stuck. Always tells me how horrible my father was, which he was, he physically and mentally abused her, then she says I'm just like him. Growing up she always told me I was just like him. The "I was stuck in my marriage" twist was just revealed to me this year. I have cut off all contact with her because I realize that I represent so many bad memories for her and is the source of my self sabotage and self hatred. I have to move on with my life and this is the only way I can do that.