Nice Guys - Just Be Yourself!

Being a nice girl, I was always jumping from relationship to relationship, fast and extreme. The simple thing I searched for was a guy who would appreciate and accept me as I am. Can I say all the guys I got involved with were jerks? Not exactly, but besides being incompatible, they were definitely more self-centered and into what they could get out of the relationship on their behalf. I was more naive and probably put up with a lot, and of course, allowed to be taken advantage of. I'm beginning to wonder why nice guys don't try to meet more nice girls?

This past summer was a disaster, as I was getting over a 2 year break up with a guy who I thought was into me, but in the end, probably missed his lifestyle of hooking up with random girls every weekend. Sadly, I pursued him thinking he took me seriously and wanted to get married. So I had taken the risk by moving to another country for him, and compromising a career path. Then in October, I went to a friend's wedding, and I happened to meet a really nice guy. As we were introduced, there was a connection. The minute we met, we both felt some type of chemistry. The thing that was most attractive about him was that, I could tell he was just being himself and having a great sense of humor, no motives of trying to 'impress' me or get my number. By the end of the night, he asked me for my name, and the next morning, I got a message on FB asking if I was the person he met at the wedding. And here I am, 2 months later, and I couldn't be any happier to know a nice guy like him found me. It's simply nice and refreshing to know there are nice guys out there, who hold on to tradition/values, showing respect for women, and value commitment/love. Nice guys, have faith and hope that there are nice girls like us out there who are waiting for you to meet/find us. You don't need to have the best fashion sense, a fancy car, a cocky attitude to win us over. All it takes is your genuineness, a little persistence (if you are really interested, take the chance and be brave because it might get you love!), and ability to connect or openness to want to talk about meaningful things in life.

Stay positive and don't get discouraged.
Belinda Belinda
31-35, F
1 Response Nov 30, 2012

because i have trouble finding a nice woman - so i ended up just to stop looking and continue to enjoy life until the time comes when a nice girl is available

Good attitude, don't look and it will find you.

i agree