Being Nice

It is not easy to be nice when someone has been abusive.

t does take strength to keep quiet. But, we end up having a restless night thinking above the incident and planning and plotting to get back at them.

Returning a person's abusiveness with kindness, sends them a different message too. It only will make them feel small. But, that is not the intention for being nice, it is because it is in your nature to be nice.

I wish it was in my nature to be nice and not be retaliating..
HardingP119 HardingP119
36-40, M
Jan 25, 2013