Only Had Sex With People I Love!!

Confession: I only had sex with three men in my life and I was married to all of them still married to the third.

I can't see myself being with someone I'm not in love with, sharing my body with some I don't love is unthinkable, with love comes passion, affection and intimacy, which will have the perfect chemistry for making love don't you think? Doing it any other way I cant imagine.

Or is it overrated? Well that's me I cant do it.!

Friendlybabe Friendlybabe
31-35, F
4 Responses Mar 8, 2010

Well Johnmor, again personal preference, I wouldn't know how it feels to have sex, I've only ever made love to someone I'm inlove with. And yes you have a point.

Love and sex are not the same thing.<br />
You can enjoy sex without loving someone, but you don't have to have sex with someone you love, like your father or brother.<br />
With your theory, if someone tells you they love you, then you will have sex with them, which they may well do to get you into bed, whether for a few days, weeks or even months, until they find someone else to take to bed.

I'm sorry don't get me wrong, yes you can love someone and not marry him. That's not what I meant. What I mean is I will not be able to have sex with someone I don't love. It just so happens I got married to them. <br />
Everyone has their own believes and I'm not trying to step on anyone's toes here. It's just personally for me you need to be inlove to be able to have such intimacy. <br />
Sorry if I affended anyone.

What's the difference? You married 3 times, and assuming you were divorced twice (I suppose they both could have died, freeing you to remarry?), couldn't you love someone very deeply and not be married to them? If you choose to marry and then divorce, how does that express a life long commitment to a single partner. In your marriage vows, did you vow before God and your witnesses to be faithful until death do you part? Aren't you just trying to "legalize" sleeping around, all be it with a somewhat steady date for awhile?<br />
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How do you assume you can't love someone without marring them?