I Am SapiosexualYes. I think the biggest turn on for me is an interesting free thinking analytical mind.
I love the thought of reducing a man whom is normally controlled in his professional and social life to a slave of his sexual urges.
I feel a deeper connection with someone who has life experience of the academic/scientific/creative kind. I get turned on by knowledge able men of any kind. Especially if he has the thirst for it. This means he's smart enough to realise that you never stop learning and discovering in life and he has humility and isn't an opinionated know it all.
I am also turned on by creativity. If you can sing, paint, sculpt, write or act or you have an interest in the arts I will be dying to get to know you carnally.
When I look back on my life lived so far, the most memorable lovers I've had have had many many brain cells to rub together. Now don't get me wrong. They haven't all been scientists, professors, singers or artists. Some have had menial jobs. And its never about money or power for me either. But what they all had in common was the ability to think and emote independently. To question and to engage.
I don't really know why I am this way. I sometimes toy with the idea that its a primal urge. Maybe i want the lover with the best genes. But I do know that I fall deeply in lust with a man with smarts. To me that's a real man. A woman's man. A man made to be pleasured. A man made to excite me.
Misseddie 41-45, F 11 Responses 12 Feb 10, 2013