50 Shades Of Hell No

So I am seeing what is out there, man wise, and it is not looking good. Don't get me wrong, there are some nice ones out there, but they are way out numbered by the jack holes. For instance, take this one guy, John (and that IS his real name). John seemed nice. We met for breakfast and had a decent time. Saw him one other time for a few minutes and that was that. Disappeared for a while. Ok, so he was a poofer, I'm used to those and they don;t bother me as much anymore. Then all of a sudden, he starts texting me again. Little things like hello etc... harmless right? Yeah. Then he asks if I want to get together that night. I ask him what he wanted to do. He said, now get this - me. WTH? Giving him the benefit of the doubt I asked, " No, seriously, what did you want to do?" Again he answered - me. I said no and left it at that. I did not talk to him again for a while. Fast forward a few weeks he texted me AGAIN. He asks why I stopped responding to his texts and I told him flat out that they way he talked to me was disrespectful and made me uncomfortable and I wasn't going to tolerate it. He proceeds to call me a tease - umm last I checked, telling someone no and being upfront didn't make me a tease. So I thought that was that and deleted the conversation. So this morning I get yet another text from him telling me he "has the perfect idea for this weekend. We can pick a scene from 50 Shades of Grey and act it out."
What the ever loving HELL? I refrained from saying anything but no and that talk like that from someone I barely know is unacceptable and to never contact me again (although I REALLY wanted to say we could do the part where the main character kicks her boss in the nuts for being skeevy and hitting on her.) He said a few more things not worth repeating and I did not reply nor feed into his drama. I am actually rather proud of myself for that.