Some People Don't Change Part Two My VersionI am severely disgusted with the way my cousin is. She really makes my family look like trash, because she herself IS trash. This is a long story but I will make it as short as possible.
This girl, who thinks that she is a "woman" gave birth to this baby two years ago. How did she get pregnant? She had sex with the guy on the first date and did not use protection (from what she told me). I used to try and build a positive relationship with her, try to be there for her as much as I could and I have realized from time to time, that not only does she disrespect me, she just plain DOES NOT CARE. I am the godmother of her daughter and all though it is not my job, I have taken care of that child whether or not her mother was around to take care of her.
Anyway, when I used to visit her, and when she was with the father of her child, they used to smoke weed, have loud obnoxious sex everyday (not caring who is behind the walls and in the area), and go out in the car (while the baby is in the back seat) and blast the stereo to the highest volume. I was surprised that the baby can even hear anything.
She is the type of person who would put all of her needs before her child's needs.
Examples: Leaving the child in the house of only a few months old, to go out and buy a pack of ciggarettes and cosmetics. Two, Fighting with her boyfriend over a straightening iron for a half an hour, while the baby is unattended in the bath tub. Three, doing her hair and make up for about an hour before the baby gets bathed or clothed. Four, Leaving dirty diapers in different sections of the house and not throwing them away until somebody says something. The list goes on and on...
Nobody I know likes her and everyone who knows her complains about her, but yet people think that she is so pretty, and so nice and they dont even realize all the **** she has done and is still doing. People are so blind by her appearence and it is just disgusting, the superficiality that goes on.
Her stepmother is supporting her financially, and has in the past, given her a roof over her head (even though she didnt deserve it). To sum it all up, she is a concieted, ungrateful, selfish, spoiled rotten brat who mooches off of whoever she can hook her rotten little claws into.
She is like a human trojan horse. You let her in and she ruins your life in one way or the other. I have decided to just avoid the heck out of her, that is all I can do in the meantime. She will never change, this has gone on for a looooooooong time.