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I Think Some People Shouldn't Have Kids

Some People Don't Change Part Two My Version

By: angelofthenight
Written on November 11th, 2007
Age: 21-25 , Female
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    cocoxoxo

    im adopted anc from what i learned if you cant take care of baby give it up for adoption i was adoptedd by my dad not biologically he turns out to be a hollywood producer who has produced alot of universal pictures and i love him to deaath i

    May 5, 2008
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    Quadrophenic

    Some of us need to come around. We all don't start as good parents, or even decent ones...

    Feb 18, 2008
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    angelofthenight

    :-) that is beautiful.

    Feb 18, 2008
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    angelbutterflies

    No problem at all. I didn't grow up so well, and I made a vow that I would make my sons life better than mine was....I love him to no end...would die so he wouldn't have to feel pain!He is my world!

    Feb 18, 2008
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    angelofthenight

    I am glad that you had a change of heart. You have grown up and have been nurturing and loving to your baby son. I have no doubt that it will stay that way. Thankyou so much for being a real mother.

    Feb 16, 2008
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    angelbutterflies

    Wow!...I can't believe what I am reading!....Ya know, i used to be selfish. And when i had my son, I thought i might not be suited to be a mother. But when i saw the smile on his face when i held him or played with him, I just thought," how could I have thought that?" I love him os much, and i am not a perfect mother by any means, but I love my son and he comes before anyone and anyTHING else in my life. I make sure he has eaten before me, I make sure he has shoes and clothes to wear, i make sure he is asleep before I go shower, and i only ever leave him with my sister who loves him like her own child. He goes to the doctor when he is sick and OMG these people make me sick....I can hardly believe it! ......I love my son to pieces, and sometimes I wish I could be selfish, but that time will come maybe someday when he is grown....and even then, he will still need me!

    Feb 15, 2008
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    Quadrophenic

    At least there is the stepgrandmother providing some caring in the child's life. There's some good influence.

    Nov 30, 2007
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    angelofthenight

    AngelaDark, that is what I am worried about the most. Some people tell me that the child may grow up to be worse than her mother. I am hoping against this. :-( And it makes me think....



    And everytime I ask my cousin how the baby is doing, she gives me short answers, as if the baby doesn't really matter. Everytime I ask her about the baby her answer is always "she's good". That is all. I just dont know what to do anymore...she doesnt live by me ( she did once for a few months). All I can do is try hard to move on with my life, and if I ever have children I am going to make sure that they grow up independent, humble and strong.



    The child has a stepgrandmother and she takes care of her very well from what I know....hopefully her influence will rub off on the child more. I can only hope.

    Nov 22, 2007
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    AngelaDark

    i know i didn't ask for how my 'family' regarded me. this baby is probably going to grow up to either be a horrible person or a very very depressed person. some people should really be sterilized against their will for the good of all

    Nov 22, 2007
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    angelofthenight

    First of all, she should have thought about her youth before she spread her legs with the guy on the first date. I believe, no matter how old you are, once you have a baby you are not number one anymore. Your baby did not ask to be born and your baby depends solely on you. There is no question about it. Babies are completely defenseless.

    You know something else, she bragged about the fact that she had sex with him on the first date. I think she should resent herself for being so dumb in the first place.

    Second, I am not offended at all, she deserves all the insults she can get because she has no remorse and she is very shallow. She has no shame at all.

    Nov 21, 2007
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    angelofthenight

    Exactly, it truly is disgusting...because you know something, other people have lost their children for much less than what she has done. Some people have their children torn away from them for no logical reason at all. It gets me so upset.



    The so called "mother" lives like as if she is a fictional character. Her whole life is like a retarded soap opera, and she is the only one who made it this way. She wants everyone else to believe that she is such a victim, and that nobody is helping her....whoever is buying that crap deserves to be used by her. I bet she believes that everyone will always be there to clean up her mess and that this is why she does the things that she does because people are blinded by her and the fact that she has a cute little baby. But we all know who the real problem is, and it is not the baby at all.

    Nov 21, 2007
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    angelofthenight

    You know something, I failed to mention that child protective services was called on her three times by three different people. First by her own Father, second, by her boyfriend's sister and third, by her half-sister within a few weeks of meeting her. This brat is just ridiculous. Again, I don't understand how she is so lucky that she still has custody of the child. the ***** has too much luck, it's not right at all.

    Nov 21, 2007
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    timmerb

    Is her name Britney? (jost kidding) Seriously, though, it sounds to me that she is not worth getting upset about. If you think her behavior is dangerous to her daughter, you should call protective services and report her.

    Nov 21, 2007
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    adandymess

    it's really depressing reading this.



    my (ex) sis-in-law was like this; thankfully she has the sense to leave her children with the grandparents most of the time.



    children do very much seem an accessory to *some* people.

    how sad.

    Nov 15, 2007
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    angelofthenight

    OMG....what are our cousins doing to themselves!? I can't believe how stupid they both are (no offense) but it's true. I believe that we all have choices. We all choose our behaviors and we choose what we do. From my story, and what you have told me, anon4me, is that they both live as if they have no conscious or conscience. They both live life as if they are in some kind of a dream world. It's really disturbing....



    My cousin had that baby when she was 18 which was two years ago. She is twenty now, and still acts as though HER life is so much more important than anyone elses. Meanwhile, not only me, but everyone else is taking care of her baby and supporting her baby in one way or the other. She acts as if the child is a complete ACCESSORY to her! (thankyou for that world btw, Quadrophenic). I have seen children treat dolls better than the way she treats her own daughter.

    Last time I came to see her, she was screaming at the baby " GO TO SLEEP!!! GO TO SLEEP!!!". I did not even know that they baby was awake to begin with. Is that any way to talk to a two year old?? My guess is NO.

    I know how you feel....I just hope that one day people wake up and stop supporting her...or that the child grows up not wanting anything to do with her. But either way, I just hope the child gets out of all this, sane, happy and functional.

    Nov 13, 2007
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    anon4me

    I have a cousin who is exactly the same..



    She's pregnant with her third kid by I think the third guy also.



    The oldest has mental problems that she refuses to get him help for. The next one is developmentally delayed, but really only because he is ignored all the time. She was pregnant with twins but miscarried. Miscarriages are never easy, but she acted like she didn't even care and was pregnant again in three months.



    She's in her early twenties and has been married, divorced, lived with two or three different guys, evicted, kicked out of her parent's house, and her grandmother's.



    She's trash through and through.. when I see her in public I act like I don't see her. It's horrible, but so true.

    Nov 12, 2007
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    Quadrophenic

    We can only hope.

    Nov 11, 2007
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    angelofthenight

    I feel horrible for the child too, whenever I was with that child, we bonded. But I am at this point where I feel like, if the child ever gets taken away from her again, I would rather the child be with genuine people who can LOVE her than a wretched, self absorbed person like her mother.

    Nov 11, 2007
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    Quadrophenic

    I don't blame you, but I still can't help feeling terrible for the daughter...

    Nov 11, 2007
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    angelofthenight

    You know something, when her child was so close to being taken away from her, I could not make it to see her, so I convinced my mother to go there and fight and bring her daughter back. She repays us with disrespect and rudeness.



    I told my mother today, if she ever gets that child taken away from her again, I am not going to lift a finger to help her, I do not even want to be involved.

    Nov 11, 2007
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    Quadrophenic

    The sad part is the baby is the only one who's going to suffer.

    If only there was a way for you to stay in the little one's life without engaging her mother. You sound like you've been the best influence in her life.

    The baby should have been hauled out of there long ago. It's a small miracle she's still alive, no thanks to the person who crapped her out.

    Nov 11, 2007
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