Pursuing Married Men
DISCLAIMER: Harsh words ahead. Click BACK if you are of faint heart.
I'm talking about the ones soberly and willfully get themselves involved with married men. Knowing what it is like. Yeah, I meant those of you who think that married men are attractive and fair game.
I know I can't tell this story without being judgmental but what can I do?
I can understand it when you didn't know the guy was married because I am not without sympathy and hey, I have been in a situation where I found myself attracted to a married man, too.
I am talking about those women who still put married men under the list of men they think are OK to flirt with and later pursue.
I used to think that women like these were one in thousands - imagine my disgust when I found them nearby. A lot of them too.
It's plain and simple - pursuing and engaging in an affair with married men is looking for trouble. Don't give me that crap about using him or worse, that he's going to leave her. You know what's going to happen. You're going to fall in love and then have your heart broken.
I am single and would like to be in a relationship as much as the next person but there are plenty of good single guys out there, why look at someone else's husband?
What I can't stand is the heartlessness of these women when they talk about the guy as if his wife doesn't matter, doesn't exist... and then they went on to tell me that they were afraid of commitment because what if their future husband cheated on them?
Well d'oh. With you guys around what do you expect?
As I said, I once found myself attracted to a married man too. But my initial attraction faded as soon as I found out he was married. We are friends and that's that.
You have a choice, you just choose to deliberately pursue a man, disregarding the fact that there is a wife (and probably kids) and then you tell me you know it's not something you're supposed to do but he was oh so charming and mysterious and it is something you couldn't control.
And you ask me why I call you stupid?