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I'M Sure I'M Going To Get A Spanking

By: josfairmaiden
Written on January 25th, 2013
I am away from my family on business returning him tomorrow morning. I had to make a 4 hour road trip to get here through snow. On the way I called my husband twice from my iPhone, on speaker, on the motorway (British freeway) to ask him for junction numbers and road names.

i didn't think at the time that this was a traffic violation, I wasn't caught by the police, but quite rightly, once I was safely here, I realised being caught isn't what makes it a violation! It was dangerous and against our agreed household standards.

I am sure I deserve to be punished and have texted him to ask if he will discipline me but he hasn't replied. Traffic safety is a biggie in our house. I am getting anxious about how bad a spanking I might be in for! I wonder what he has planned. I will submit to his discipline whatever he decides because I an disappointed in myself and i need correction. I know I have behaved badly and deserve to be punished. I will feel less guilty and he will feel he has control over my bad behaviour.
By: josfairmaiden
Age: 36-40 , Female
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27 responses
  • kapteinduiwel
    kapteinduiwel

    Love it, Hope he used the cain.

    Mar 29
    1 like
  • mjg1968
    mjg1968

    It's a major rule for me not to use the cell phone while driving. I've been punished for that once and never forgot it, although I don't drive much now. I've already been warned if it happens again it will be much worse. I hope you learned from yours. I'm also glad you asked to be punished...I have a hard time doing that.

    Mar 11
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  • john1962
    john1962

    Your husband was correct in punishing you for using your mobile phone whilst driving.
    The punishment you got was just and fair in my opinion and i think you agree.
    However, i would also have punished you aditionally for not planing your journey prior to departure. I do not use "sat-navs" or other mobile devices, but i do get out the trusted road book and plan my journey and make a mental not of exit numbers and the route.
    I think an additional punishment should be received for failure to plan ahead.

    Feb 11
    2 likes
  • JennaR
    JennaR

    Whoops! I am glad it's over dear.

    Feb 8
    1 like
  • josfairmaiden
    josfairmaiden

    I got it last night. He spanked me with his hand and a hairbrush (again!) and I am having difficulty sitting. He also grounded me from my iphone for everything except emergency and and business for a week. Thanks to all for support and sympathy. I am glad it is over. I know he loves me.

    Jan 28
    3 likes
    • cptenna02
      cptenna02

      At least it's over and done with.

      Jan 28
      1 like
    • JonsgoodgirlsHOH
      JonsgoodgirlsHOH

      This sounds like a fair and reasonable consequence. I am sure you are sore but that is better than what could have happened if you had been in an accident. I am sure you will think twice before using your phone while driving again. Your HOH loves you dearly. You are truly blessed.

      Jan 28
      1 like
  • jennylovestosmile
    jennylovestosmile

    Well having the cell on the speaker is more safe then holding the phone at your ear, both of your hands was not on the phone so I don't think you need to be spanked,

    Jan 27
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    • josfairmaiden
      josfairmaiden

      Hi Jenny, I think because it is against the law over here, because it was dark and snowing and because we drive faster over here (the limit is 70mph) He has a good point and I am willing to accept that. If I's been seen by the police, I'd have been prosecuted. And I am not sure holding your phone to your ear is any more dangerous dangerous than holding it in front of you.... I did that only because I thought if the police saw me they maybe couldn't tell I was making a call as easily! Thanks for taking the trouble to comment!

      Jan 27
      1 like
  • cptenna02
    cptenna02

    I'm afraid you fully deserve to be disciplined but you know that. Your actions weren't just dangerous to you but other road users as well. Especially considering the weather conditions.

    Jan 27
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    • josfairmaiden
      josfairmaiden

      Thanks for commenting Sir, and I see you have suggested to my husband that he use a cane. I am happy to say he doesn't have one! LOL

      I was on the M1 actually and I was heading up not far from you to a place near Leicester. You know what it's like, we all get overconfident, and at the time it feels like there is no harm in a quick call, but you are right, it is inexcusable and I'll take my punishment

      Jan 27
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    • cptenna02
      cptenna02

      From what I've read on your HOH's profile maybe that should have been - I am happy to say he doesn't have one, yet!

      Jan 27
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    • josfairmaiden
      josfairmaiden

      hmmm, apparently so!

      :(

      Jan 27
      1 like
    • kapteinduiwel
      kapteinduiwel

      Looks like he needs to get one.

      Mar 29
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  • HubbysBaby
    HubbysBaby

    Uh oh sweetie! I hope your punishment isn't too bad or long.... Good luck !

    Jan 27
    3 likes
  • Michelle0001
    Michelle0001

    Uh oh, your backside is in for it I'm afraid. I just read your husband's story on the same incident and I think you are both in agreement that your behavior was punishment worthy. Good luck. Hugs to you :)

    Jan 27
    3 likes
    • josfairmaiden
      josfairmaiden

      Thanks for the tip off. he was on the laptop a lot today. I will look what he has written. I knew it was coming anyway, and I know I deserve it. xxx

      Jan 27
      1 like
  • JackAndJillDD
    JackAndJillDD

    Doing dangerous things and worrying your HoH are punishable infractions in our DD home.
    If your DH disciplines you for this - remember to thank him for caring so much about you.
    On the other hand - I thought that only holding the phone was a traffic offense - not when on speaker.
    If speaker phone calls are allowed - then you have broken no traffic rules and shouldn't be disciplined!
    Hope it works out for the best.

    Jan 27
    3 likes
    • josfairmaiden
      josfairmaiden

      Thanks for commenting .
      In the UK you may not touch the phone while driving. It has to be in a cradle with hands free kit. (I don't have one because I don't take long trips in the car often and I usually have kids in the car so never use the phone while driving.)
      I was holding the phone, dialing and using the speaker instead of holding it to my ear.

      UK motorways are fast and busy. It was also snowing. I was impatient and had not prepared properly which is why I made the calls. It was a moment of being dumb! I can assure you, had the police seen me I would have been pulled over and prosecuted for dangerous driving. That is the penalty over here!

      Jan 27
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    • JackAndJillDD
      JackAndJillDD

      I know the British motorways well.
      They drive almost as fast as the Germans do!
      You are very lucky to have a dear husband who has your safety at heart.
      Just imagine if he didn't care at all.
      That is the joy of domestic discipline.
      We all make mistakes, but have our DHs guide us back on track.
      We learn through discipline - remember to thank him.

      Hugs
      Jack's Jill

      Jan 27
      1 like
  • JonsgoodgirlsHOH
    JonsgoodgirlsHOH

    I think you are in for severe correction but I think it is appropriate for what you did. I am sure your HOH will be fair and loving in disciplining you and in the end you will feel loved and relieved of all guilt. Best wishes for a short but effective discipline session.

    Jan 27
    2 likes
  • cwred523
    cwred523

    no need to be worried. He has your best interest in mind when he spanks you

    Jan 26
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    • josfairmaiden
      josfairmaiden

      Yes I know you are right... It always the word severe that worries me. Driving issues result in severe spanking in our house in my husbands words. Lucky for me it has never really happened, but I was spanked once for just considering driving while intoxicated... I never even got in the car... And sitting down was hard for a few days. As he still hasn't replied to me about this I feel a little anxious. I imagine that is his intention. All part of the discipline.

      Jan 26
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    • cwred523
      cwred523

      I am a bit nervous when I know my punishment will be more severe than for other infractions. But, I know that it will only help us.

      Jan 26
      1 like
  • DozerDan
    DozerDan

    A warm bottom will be a blessed relief on a cold snowy night.

    Jan 25
    2 likes
  • aquiet1
    aquiet1

    Oh dear, I'm sorry. It's best to pull to the side of the road in those cases. I wish you well.

    Jan 25
    2 likes
    • josfairmaiden
      josfairmaiden

      I know. It was really stupid. I was not thinking. I just wanted to get there. At the time I didn't think he might be disappointed in me but if course he was.

      Jan 25
      1 like