Shallowness Is Pretty Crap.

I really liked this girl once who told me she'd never go out with me because she didn't want to go out with a tomboy. It was pretty brutal and she said it in front of everyone. She was so awful. I didn't know how to feel or how to react. There were like ten of her friends standing there watching every moment and laughing while they filmed it on their phones and I felt like the biggest idiot. I guess I just assumed because we got along really well when it was just the two of us that she would be the same around her friends.

She was just shallow. I still cringe when I remember that and I remember how much it hurt to be rejected solely because of my clothes and hair. I try to give other people a chance now because I know that looks and clothing and all of those things can change on a whim but personality is usually inbuilt.
tierney95 tierney95
18-21, F
1 Response Jan 26, 2013

A life lesson that frees you from others and allows you to grow in your own way. What a gift!