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I Think the Little Things Make Life Worthwhile

Hospital Stuff-Little Things You Take For Granted!

By: 2011A
Written on January 29th, 2013
By: 2011A
Age: 51-55 , Female
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  • reynamarie

    Here are a couple other things that make "ME" happy when I get out of the hospital or any other day for that matter.... I LOVE to feel the air on my cheeks! To see the SKY...WOW! It's the little things we have to be thankful for. I enjoyed your post.

    Mar 4
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    • 2011A

      Absolutely! Thank you. Yes. One doesn't miss the air until it is not there anymore! And the sky? I have no words...

      Mar 4
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  • jenvice

    I was recently in the hospital and I agree with what you have said here. The little comforts we are allowed in the hospital are priceless. By far my favorite comfort in the hospital was the coffee mug. The part of the hospital I stay in doesn't like people to keep those after a meal for security reasons. Once, when I was in for an extended stay a few years ago the staff let me keep a coffee mug all day and I felt rich. Amazing how much the small things come to mean.

    Feb 25
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  • weewass

    Very Well written.Very thoughtful and understanding.Thank you.

    Feb 25
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    • 2011A

      Thank you, friend.

      Feb 25
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  • nalarekab

    How very true.

    Feb 10
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    • 2011A

      Thank you.

      Feb 10
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  • TKexhib

    Another thing. If you visit someone in hospital ---> please don't wear cologne or perfume! I remember when I was a patient once and a well-meaning friend came in wearing over-powering aftershave or something like that. I felt like I was going to vomit, but held it back. My facial expression must have told him something because thankfully he didn't stay long.

    Feb 9
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    • 2011A

      Thank you for this. I had forgotten about this. I have sensitive lungs and one time a lady wore such heavy perfume I could not look after her husband who was post- surgery. When I told her this she became very offended. I showed her our no scents policy and she screamed at me. I had to trade her husband for another patient. I faint usually around heavy scents. This is a very valid comment, TKexhib. Thank you for this.

      Feb 9
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  • pedrohedgerow

    This is full of tips and hints which I for one wouldnt have thought about without reading of them,and gives good advice concerning both the patient and staff.Very informative and useful Cyn! :)xxxxxxx

    Feb 7
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    • 2011A

      Ped. You are welcome, indeed. I am glad you liked it. kissessssssssssssss...xxxxxxx :)

      Feb 7
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  • PatBarker

    Thank you for taking the time to make contact with visitors and possibly future patients - to make the effort, to be human and be so real - it does one good to read your words for it brings us all together and makes the world a kinder place. With much appreciation, Patti x

    Feb 6
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    • 2011A

      People need people who care. It is why I became a healer. Thank you for your comments, Patti. xxo

      Feb 6
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  • NPie

    Thank you, your words reminded me of when we use to be in and out of hospital with my then 3 year old. We would always pack her favourite blanket, books, toys, and anything else she treasured. Sick family was a definite no no, which was not always understood and one seen as being nasty. I did not care. What was important was the health of my child and the children around her in the hospital. Thank you for informing all.

    Feb 6
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    • 2011A

      You are welcome. And your daughter? She is fine now?

      Feb 6
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  • redmaple

    So worthwhile for all to know. I've visited people in hospitals plenty of times. Sorrow over their condition can overwhelm those practical thoughts. Recently when having outpatient surgery on the coldest day of the year, I was so pleased by that warmed blanket over my cold shooulders. Nowadays we have male and female doctors and nurses of all races. A big burley guy can have great ability as a nurse. A tiny asian woman can be a great surgeon. Then I come home and hear clowns on the radio making racist jokes about having a white male secretary of state. Sickening. The hospital makes one think and hopefully to care and always to count our blessings. There is always someone in much worse condition in the next bed or going by in a wheelchair. Thank you for a big story about the little stuff.

    Feb 5
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    • 2011A

      Yes, size and sex mean little in healthcare. Yes, there is always someone worse off than yourself in hospital. Thank you for your words. kissessssssssssss..xoxo

      Feb 5
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  • sinathamby

    Most important is to show our love that we care and that cures and heals

    Feb 5
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    • 2011A

      That is why I became a healer, dear sinathamby! xoxo

      Feb 5
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  • memeez

    Some of these are really good ideas. On my recent hospital stays last spring, my major concerns in the icu were privacy, which you have NONE of and my family being able to be there as much as possible. fortunately I had cell phone to contact them when needed. The least of my concerns was a cup of coffee or tea etc. since I was not able to eat and I was in DKA. My vision went totally blurry after being given fluids and being put on insulin iv. I went through, fingers sticks every 1/2 hour and full blood draws every hour for 3 days. I went through 3-4 painful potassium infusions until I refused them due the pain. I went through 4 people unsucessfully trying to put an iv in my arm which caused a blood clot. I went through a bowel blockage which could have killed me with NO gastro doc until after it was taken care of by ME. I won't go into the details. I suffered vaginal trauma due to that and and infection. I had one of the worst hospital stays possible and I'm lucky to have made it out of there alive really, there were many times I was scared I wouldn't. I was released with a DVT in my leg and I went back the next day for 4 more days in a regular room. My nurse in the ICU, the one who released me with pain in my leg, telling me it was due to low potassium, seemed to be telling me at one point that I had an attitude problem and this was all my fault, I wasn't taking diabetes seriously! And then he said I should accept the icu, go with the flow and walk around and talk to people??? How the hell was I supposed to walk around while I'm in DKA with a potassium of 2, 2 ivs in me and monitors everywhere and at that time already most likely a DVT? I wasn't taking diabetes seriously? I was diagnosed 3 days before I was hospitalized and I was already in DKA then, my doctor nearly killed me by not hospitalizing me immediately and then the icu nearly killed me a few times more. I had no idea I had type 1 diabetes before that. The nerve of that idiot. They are all lucky I didn't sue all of them!!!

    Feb 4
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    • 2011A

      I can understand what you are saying. I have a bit of ICU experience. And the lack of privacy and all the procedures are necessary when your life is precarious. I don't think that you realize this well....Mistakes are made. And families do not let their loved ones rest, REST. And can be severe in their grief. People do not get this. That is the reason for all the rule and regulations: lives have to be saved. Geez...I am sorry for your misdiagnosis. At least you are alive to be angry. Please vent and be thankful you are alive to do so!

      Feb 5
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  • peterpan36

    The Queen will award you, OBE or DBE, for your services to the community.

    Jan 29
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    • 2011A

      I am unfamiliar with those things, Peterpan. But I thank you as usual for your love and for your support. kissessssssssssssssssss..xoxo

      Jan 30
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    • peterpan36

      After you have been awarded OBE or DBE by the Queen, we all will address you Dame Cythnia. Your title will not be Miss, or Mrs, and it will be Dame.
      By the way, did you get my Get Well Card send you yesterday?

      Jan 30
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    • 2011A

      Yes, I did. I thank you. I went back to sleep so thanking you slipped my mind. Please forgive me, love. I miss you. Please come and talk with me. I sometimes miss you by only an hour. My hours are erratic. Kissesssssssssssssss....xoxox

      Jan 30
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    • peterpan36

      It is totally understandable. On one hand, you are not feeling well. On the other hand, every day you receive many gifts, messages, comments, and cards.
      It takes you hours to reply each of them daily. There could be some which you miss it.

      Jan 31
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    • 2011A

      Ha. I am here now, peterpan. Come and find me! I am slowly improving. I am sad when I do not reply to each one. kissessssssssssssss...xxo

      Jan 31
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    • peterpan36

      Don't be sad. Tomorrow is another day.

      Jan 31
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    • 2011A

      Ah. There you are. I adore you, my dearone. kissessssssssssss...xoxo

      Jan 31
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  • womaninbliss

    This is so true. When people are vulnerable they appreciate little reminders of home and little comforts and treats. It really is something worth remembering. ((hugs))

    Jan 29
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    • 2011A

      Yes. Thank you. kissesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss........

      Jan 29
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  • EatingCROW

    Lol.. I remember when I had my c section, they gave me a spinal... and right as the needle went in I thought... I need to pee....I was so embarrassed... bad enough I had an entire audience down there.... but then I was going to pee all over them... then seeing as I couldn't do a darn thing about it... I consoled myself by telling myself I probably wasn't the first one... and made myself laugh by saying to myself that at least I wouldn't poo myself...lol... I had the greatest team of both drs. And nurses . Altho... I'm sure it would have been better had you been there. ;)

    Jan 29
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    • 2011A

      Many things we see and hear are private. We don't say a word. People are vulnerable. We care for them as best we could. I would have loved to have been there. The majority of nurses love their jobs. Like we love people. xoxxo

      Jan 29
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  • neverdiewondering

    thank you so much for this..is so true..little things are big things indeed when one is sick..sometimes if you are visiting a loved one you might just notice someone in the bed next door with no visitors..give them a smile and a few caring words..can mean so much..your such a caring person Cyn..love you..miss you..cherish you..kissessssssssssss..xoxoxoxoxoxxo

    Jan 29
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    • 2011A

      Yes. You can make a person's day brighter in little ways...It is so easy, hon. Thank you. kissessssssssssssssssss...xxoxo

      Jan 29
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  • maltesemermaid

    ohhh believe me sister of mine . . . I know all too well . . . I have had more surgeries and time spent in hospitals that I care to confess . . . and your story rings soooo true to me . . . I am completely aware of the little to BIG things about a hospital I would never take for granted . . . when I'm in patient I often think of the days before such finely trained institutions ever were . . . can you imagine what the middle ages must have been like . . . UGHHHH . . . so I am forever appreciative of such things today as modern medicine . . . thank you for sharing this sweetie . . . it's awesome to make folks stop and think about things like this in this fast paced day and age . . . love you sister of mine and thank you soooo much for doing what you do . . . we would be in very rough shape withouts ya's . . .

    Jan 29
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    • 2011A

      Thank you, sister of mine. I love what I do. I do not forget how important people are. kissessssssssssssssssssss...xoxo

      Jan 29
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  • CrazyWaterSpring

    What sane parent takes a kid to a hospital? Don't they realize that sick people and goodness knows what diseases are there? Thanks for the thoughts.

    Jan 29
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    • 2011A

      Do you know how many bring newborns? And let babies crawl on the floors? God. You are welcome.

      Jan 29
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