Dance Moms

ok just watched the whole 1st season of dance moms i understand where abbey miller comes from she wants them to win at any costs and its worked but watching it you see both sides i want to become a softball coach and have read up on sports coaching i may not be an expert and i understand that she a big success but i think to coach anyone never mind kids there needs to be a level of understand between each child i dont like the way she says if you dont like if then go anyone can be replaced that just puts more pressure on the child kids have enough to deal with they shouldnt be worried about competitions they should have fun being kids being they are only kids for so long then boom its gone in the sports world the younger you are the better you can be im 24 i didnt have the same opportunities as everyone eles my parents didnt care and didnt have the money to do things for me so i had to make do with things i had thats why ive started doing sports just recently and now im totally dedicated to it 100% no questions anyways going off subject the end result is really good better than expected on her show but it just seems like they go through emotion breakdowns to get there that are not necessary call me old fashioned but manners and respect cost nothing i just think she should care more about that than being the best i dunno maybe its just me being me but thats what i think what do you think?