I Am Honored

I find it very honoring when people trust me and share with me there deepest darkest secretes. I’m Co-dependent so I just love trying to help people. Must of the time it is just listing to their problems but sometimes they want my advice as well. God gave us two ears and one mouth so I try to use my ears twice as much as I use my mouth.

Thank you

LateNightGuy LateNightGuy
41-45, M
8 Responses Jul 3, 2008

OK

Exactly! TRUST is one of those concepts that on MANY levels earns the saying: ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS! :)

OK I will take you up on that FG

I love to talk but I also like to listen and I pride myself on that. I am here for you if you need to chat.

Denise I'm sorry that you had this experince with your family.... Family can be brutel with each other. A good rule of thumb I have found is every thing is confidential unless some one threatens to hurt themselves or others.<br />
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Denise I would like to thank you for sharing your story with me.

I have an experience to share involving trust that turned out extremely painful and emotional. I kept what I call a grave secret for over 25 years. The truth finally surfaced and it changed how my entire family views me. So I have to wonder how important keeping secrets are. I would have to imagine it would depend on the secret. However to view it as being a trustworthy quality I think you are right, and co-dependent I believe we all are. If you think about it everyone needs someone, right?<br />
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Nice chatting

LOL.. Thank you but it is always in the back of my mind.

Being a good listener doesn't make one co-dependent.