I Was A Victim MyselfI wasn't raised Catholic, but my mother and grandmother were, and there was always an underlying sense of shame when sex was discussed. It was taboo, only whispered about, and my family was of the strong opinion that sex not be had until after marriage. Any kinky sexual exploration was looked upon as sick and perverted, and so as a kid, I was terrified of sex and anything to do with it. Even watching an R-rated movie made me feel guilty.
I didn't lose that mindset until a few years ago, when I fell in love with a woman for the first time. All of my pre-conceived notions about sex and what was morally "right" flew out the window, and I realized that sex is a beautiful ex
As long as the sex is safe and consentual between adults, I say explore your little hearts out!!!
It isn't shameful at all. It's beautiful and fun and I for one am thankful it exists.