Get Over Your SelfI have run into many people on here who are constantly on the defensive in regards to sex.
I can say absolutely nothing about sexuality, and they, almost on a whim, mention "I'm not here to talk about sex or fetishes or blah blah blah."
It's kind of insulting to me, because there's nothing about my profile or experience groups that indicate that this would be my interest. So why do I have the onus of proving my LACK of sexual interest in a person?
At that point, I'd be lying anyways. I'm a man and sex is a topic on any honest mans mind, at all times, unless they're impotent or castrated. It's the biological imperative. It's what drives NEW LIFE. Why avoid it? Why not figure out ways to channel and direct it rather than put an obstructive wall in front of it.
So I wonder, are these obsessively restrained people just protecting themselves from their own unchecked, unfulfilled, rampant sex drive? Are they sexually attracted to me and stopping something that they anticipate might happen between us that they'd later regret?
In fact, the only reason I've joined this group is because I feel like I need an outlet for the karmic dump these rampant ego cases have taken on me. I didn't plan on joining any sexually related groups until a few people did a number on me.
Just because I'm a man and think about sex and could possibly be attracted to you, doesn't mean I'm actually going to act on it. There are so many fish in the sea. Why would I place all my hopes on some frightened, cloistered, walled up person online? Those qualities are totally unattractive.
Get over your self!