Keeping It ClassyI think there are too many rules about how women should act, think, feel, look, in regards to their sexuality.
I think women start to believe that they should constantly worry about the impression and the image they give others....don't want to be too easy, don't want to look slutty, don't be too fat, don't be too skinny, don't think about sex, be proper, respectable women don't do ____, if you do _____ then men won't respect you, women don't watch ****, women don't like ********, women don't read dirty books or magazines, women don't have one night stands, women always make sex about emotions...and generally, women aren't supposed to talk about sex.
One minute women are made to feel bad about being reserved...called prudes, boring, etc, then the next they are made to feel bad because they are being called easy/slutty.
What's a woman to do?
There's a very fine line between classy and trashy.
Well, I would like to say that I have found several women here on EP that seem to defy many of these "rules" and they don't care. They are strong, smart, sassy, and tell it like it is.
They do what they want, talk about it, and still keep it classy.
I admire these women and love reading their stories because I know it has helped me feel more confident in expressing myself and talking about sex and I think they could be a great source of inspiration for other women:
I am so glad to have befriended all of you on EP, and I love getting to know all of you through messages and reading / sharing stories.
Also, I would like to thank you guys for helping me kind of come out of my sheltered shell and see that it's ok to love sex, talk about it, and there is no shame in it. :)
ItsJustMe888 31-35, F 19 Responses 25 Jul 11, 2012