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I Think We Create Too Many Rules Around Sexuality

It Also Works the Other Way Around.

By: TRhino
Written on July 2nd, 2008

Many times I hear people telling me that that I am too picky with the woman around me.  They say well its just sex or you are a guy you don't have to be picky.  The thing about it is I think, and this is for me, that I don't choose to just sleep with every wandering girl I meet.  That may work for some but I think if someone is gonna enjoy my body I should feel the same way and enjoy hers too.  While sex for the sake of sex will fill good if it is bad you then have a lot of things going on with it, if it is good you might not get to repeat it  I just know I like mine when shared with someone I like and connect with.  Even though I am a guy I can have standards and limits.  I mean seriously just because I am a guy should I hop the nuns bones....

By: TRhino
Age: 31-35 , Male
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  • thenunn
    thenunn

    Men arent all different from women ..many want to feel a connection to have sex...and sometimes women are like some men and just want sex. For me there has to be some connection..as much as I enjoy sex ,I need to feel something good for that person.

    Apr 15, 2012
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  • jerrica
    jerrica

    i agree with your viewpoint

    Mar 5, 2012
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  • iowacorngirl
    iowacorngirl

    And i commend you on your standards. Though id like to enjoy casual sex, that is not the case. Even if presented the opportunity, i would still find it hard to hop into bed with a total stranger-need to have some commonality there other then wanting ******* or working at having one, in some cases. So connection is good--good to have it and good to get it.

    Aug 20, 2009
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    • tjscooter
      tjscooter

      Key ....Morals are subjective....Standards should be firm..
      Standard #1 there has to be a mental...Intellectual ..connect.....preferably..although sometimes just a common goal may work..:)

      Jun 19, 2012
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