To Many Rules Around Sexuality

this is a subject that has bothered me for some time.I DON,T understand how something so beautiful   as sex can be considered bad by the church.I personally grew up with the idea that sex was bad, except if you were married.   MY mom still holds these beliefs today.  I thought i was bad for wanting sex with women it finally does not bother me any more.To me the church has done more harm than good with the way sex is percevied, i do believe GOD is a part of us all.and i do love GOD .  i would love to be in a commited relationship butsometimes that is not possible all people need sex married or not',. One final point MARY MAGELINE in the bible was a prositute and i believe she is in heaven  so much for sex being bad.

mycuzinvinni mycuzinvinni
46-50, M
7 Responses Feb 25, 2009

every one judges every one else it is a shame .... I know there a lot who judge me , und nicht favorably <br />
too bad Im such a nice girl....

i think when we judge we have 3 fingers pointing at ourselves we are judging what we dislike in ourselves

I have allways love the great spirt of the heavens and the earth.I have found in knowing the bible it is so hard to fullly understand.People in the church,seem to all point their finger at people who through their judgement are doing wrong.We are told,judge not!!We can not work our way trying to be perfect it is impossiable,The Bible speaks of one gift in this life and that is love,the second gift is forgiveness.I have reached a place in my life,where I have the most beautiful peace.I do not judge anyone.My love to this earth and man kind is far beautiful.The Great Spirt is the love I share and I treasure it.He meets me every day of my life through song and prayer.I live with a man, and I would never marry again,I can't I will loose all my benifets oops.every thing I worked hard for.He does not have much income.I have promised to love him as long as we respect that we are two different people our ways in thinking and believeing are different.I like being around him and him with me.I do not belive any one on this earth can tell you how to live as long as you trust in the yourselfe and The Great Spirt of this world you are safe.Take care.

I have allways love the great spirt of the heavens and the earth.I have found in knowing the bible it is so hard to fullly understand.People in the church,seem to all point their finger at people who through their judgement are doing wrong.We are told,judge not!!We can not work our way trying to be perfect it is impossiable,The Bible speaks of one gift in this life and that is love,the second gift is forgiveness.I have reached a place in my life,where I have the most beautiful peace.I do not judge anyone.My love to this earth and man kind is far beautiful.The Great Spirt is the love I share and I treasure it.He meets me every day of my life through song and prayer.I live with a man, and I would never marry again,I can't I will loose all my benifets oops.every thing I worked hard for.He does not have much income.I have promised to love him as long as we respect that we are two different people our ways in thinking and believeing are different.I like being around him and him with me.I do not belive any one on this earth can tell you how to live as long as you trust in the yourselfe and The Great Spirt of this world you are safe.Take care.

I have allways love the great spirt of the heavens and the earth.I have found in knowing the bible it is so hard to fullly understand.People in the church,seem to all point their finger at people who through their judgement are doing wrong.We are told,judge not!!We can not work our way trying to be perfect it is impossiable,The Bible speaks of one gift in this life and that is love,the second gift is forgiveness.I have reached a place in my life,where I have the most beautiful peace.I do not judge anyone.My love to this earth and man kind is far beautiful.The Great Spirt is the love I share and I treasure it.He meets me every day of my life through song and prayer.I live with a man, and I would never marry again,I can't I will loose all my benifets oops.every thing I worked hard for.He does not have much income.I have promised to love him as long as we respect that we are two different people our ways in thinking and believeing are different.I like being around him and him with me.I do not belive any one on this earth can tell you how to live as long as you trust in the yourselfe and The Great Spirt of this world you are safe.Take care.

i have no problem with that at all

Probably irrelevant here but, the idea that Mary Magdalene was a prostitute has never been biblically based. The early church started that tradition to attempt to diminish her role as a leader and diminish women in general.<br />
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More to the point though, I agree with you! It is very difficult to fathom how two adults having a pleasurable time should have any bearing on their religious faith at all!

the point i was try to make she was indeed that and made out ok so sex is normal for all of us

Great advice Leiza, i agree 110%

there were always to many rules ... so be happy brake them alle, und dont look back .

yes i agree