I Didn't Loose My Mother!
If you read my experience "Afraid of Loosing My Mother", you'll get the whole gist.
But basically, here it is. I was so afraid to tell my mother that I put a ring on my lover's finger. So just now, I told her. And oh my God was it amazing. I seriously thought she was going to yell and rave and smoke a whole pack of cigarettes. But I was wrong.
She was so happy for me and glad of what I was feeling. Of course it does probably help that she absolutely adores T (T is my girlfriend).
And guess what? At the end of our conversation, she said I was young, but she had faith in my decision, and that she loved me with all her heart and I was still her baby girl. (Even though I look more like her baby boy.) And lastly, that I should quit overanalyzing.