Most Of The TimeI give them the benefit of the doubt, because I would like it to be given to me.
But there are times when I cant help it...after so many times of thinking, ok, "I took them wrong, Maybe they just have a harsh tone of voice......it's just me...they didn't mean it how it sounded." And I reply back as nice as I can, just in case It was all me. finally, after so many times of me listening to their hateful tone, and wondering if it's just me I start treating them how they treat me.
And it's funny how I'm supposed to sit back and take in what's dished out to me, as soon as I treat them how they treat me, people's head spins...I become someone with a grudge or anger problems....whats up with that?