Not Everyone Is Serious About the 'dating' Part
I tried online dating and went out with six men. Of these men only one was looking for a relationship. The others were only interested in getting horizontal as soon as possible.
By the fourth guy, I came right out and asked him why he indicated he was looking for a relationship when that was obviously not the case. He told me that many of the women who date online are either desparate or looking to get horizontal. Since I didn't fall into either of these categories I thought he was full of it and told him so. He laughed and said that he dated online regularly and had conjugal relations with 1 out of every 6 women on the first date; he labeled them as either easy or desparate.
I gave up after the 6th guy I went out with. He was the one who was serious about a relationship but he had two very beautiful (and head strong) pre-teen daughters and I didn't like the way he treated them. I knew it would be a great source of conflict between us even though they were his girls.