OK, so, I've been with my partner for 4 years, and we've been best friends for 11 years. we've never had any problems, aside from the usual; he drives me mad, i drive him mad, etc..
He went on a close friend's stag do about a month ago; a week in Portugal with 7 other men. when he came back, he told me that he'd pulled two women. he says it was just a kiss, meant nothing etc., but I'm not so sure. Why was he even LOOKING at other women? I don't look at other men, I'm happy and content with our relationship- the idea of being with another man makes me feel a little sick. Why would he do this? He says that as he was a virgin when we got together, he's curious what sex and relationships with other people are like.
I can't leave him, he's my everything, but I can't stop him from being curious, or make him love me more. should i just let him go and find out, and say he can come back to me if he wants? even writing that makes me feel ridiculous...
cherryfaces cherryfaces
Apr 18, 2012