I try not to judge how someone wants to live their life, but that does not mean I do not have an opinon on the subject. A opinon is not a judgement. I can disagree with you just as you can disagree with me. This opens us up to a great discussion. It is those who take to judgeing which leads to condeming those who opions differ from them. The most judgemental people I have found are those who call others who have differening opinons judgemental.