Friendship Gone Wild

Can nobody understand that i like to spend a lot of time by myself. I can't spend everyday with people. I have always done this ever since i was a child. I like to sit alone in my room with my music and a good book or with a film or something along those lines.
I have a friend she is more like my best friend and she wants to spend all day every day with me and i just can't take it. She has moved in with her partner and has to spend a lot of nights alone which she doesn't like, so she always asked me to come around. I used to always say yes and then go around her house and spend time with her. We did everything together. I am now getting to the point where i don't want to spend time with her. I make up excuses as to why i can't make it and i know thats really bad but i don't want to upset her.
She doesn't like me working more than i already do and she doesn't like it when i have arrangements with my family or other friends. If i don't talk to her or text her over a couple of days she gets really annoyed with me. I cannot spend every waking moment talking to her i need a rest. I Just feel so suffocated at the moment. I know if i say something then she will stop talking to me completely and thats not what i want i don't want to loose her completely.
I don't know what to do anymore. I feel so lost. At the moment i just want to run away from here and never come back, crawl under and rock and just live the rest of my existence there.

serenity2338 serenity2338
18-21, F
1 Response Sep 13, 2012

Man that sucks. I know how good frnds can be hard to come by, but you mite want tell her Politely that shes being clingy. Or not. Totally up to u

Getting to the point where i'm going to have to....... Kinda need to man up and tell her politely as you said and see what happens.

Well, if you do, I hope it goes well.