Online Cheater

I have been married for 13 years and even though the marriage was rocky it was and had the potential to be a great one.  We have a 12 year old son and two older boys 23, and 21.

My husband had been disappearing for days at a time over the past 5 months and then I found his online affair which had been going on for 5 months and them meeting and having sexual conversations and him promising her marriage thru the emails.

I have been sickened and devastated by this and it's been 2 weeks now since I learned of this.  He has no remorse and now wants a divorce.

What do i do?  I have been to a lawyer but I am so in shock .

sadsandi sadsandi
46-50, F
1 Response Mar 10, 2010

sounds like you need to get the ball rolling before he does darlings ...good luck