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I 've Been Hurt Badly By the Person I Truly Loved

What A Horrible Feeling

By: KittenHasaWhip
Written on November 17th, 2012
When you truly care about someone and they hurt you without a second thought, it stings. You find yourself wondering why. You go over and over things in your head trying to figure out where you could have changed the outcome or how you could have spared yourself the hurt. Sometimes there are things you overlooked. The facts were there, but you didn't want to face them. Other times it comes out of the blue. Either way, you were done wrong and it hurts. Do you forgive them or leave them?
By: KittenHasaWhip
Age: 46-50 , Female
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8 responses
  • Itemgirl
    Itemgirl

    I experienced the same...
    Knw i didn't leave them or i didn't forgive them.. No chance thats my feelings n thats nt there falt i want to deal with my own.. Just let it b happnd.. Ignore them.. I knw it's hurt like a hell bt u wan do it.. If they are u'rs they will come back to you.. Otherwise u'll learn to live without them.. Same thng happnd with me.. My two frnds had did same with me they hurt me alot.. N i did same... Nw they are regreating for what they did... N i dont care any more..

    Dec 3, 2012
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  • enchanted7277
    enchanted7277

    i believe that if we didn't care about the person, it would not hurt. This makes it hard for me to let someone in.

    Nov 25, 2012
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  • wanttolactate
    wanttolactate

    Been there done that too many times to count. I am one of the most forgiving people on the planet, but when your SO continually hurts you over and over, without ever apologizing or acknowledging the damage done, it will kill the love. I used to think I married my soulmate, but these past 5 years have really put that to the test. I am trapped in a marriage that I can't get out of right now. And the damage is too great to repair.

    Nov 23, 2012
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    • KittenHasaWhip
      KittenHasaWhip

      Find a way to get out. You only live one life. Don't spend it miserable.

      Nov 24, 2012
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  • Jojogal66
    Jojogal66

    It is a horrible feeling but it is through this pain that one can truly appreciate love and care...

    Nov 22, 2012
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  • Hopingforabetterfuture
    Hopingforabetterfuture

    Pain is there for a reason. The fact that you're hurting means that you cared in the first place. That in itself is a wonderful thing and I believe thats what makes us human. Forgivness should be given before its asked. Its not something that we do for others, its something that we do for ourselves. It helps us heal faster. As far as leaving them is concerned, you need to assess whether they're worth the trouble, worth the time, worth the hurt, worth fighting for and most importantly, whether they are worthy of being with you. I hope I have helped you, even if its just a little. <3

    Nov 22, 2012
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  • dolcee26
    dolcee26

    I don't think you could have spared yourself the hurt. Usually hurt is necessary somehow for human to grow and evolve into something better. What I can say is that luckily the world gives many turns, you never know maybe at one point it will be you hurting someone else without even wishing to.

    Nov 21, 2012
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    • KittenHasaWhip
      KittenHasaWhip

      That's true. We have to feel hurt to really know joy. I try to use my hurt to grow as a person, Sometimes it takes time to heal.

      Nov 21, 2012
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