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For each of us, to get where we are, in any given moment, takes tremendous effort. Recognizing toxic flaws and trying to change them, is a good thing. However, regardless of how flawed, the person you are right now, today, is amazing. You have faced and conquered many things in your life and will continue to do so. When something new rises up and challenges you, simply look it head on and scoff because you’ve been “there” already and risen triumphant.

No one knows the road you have traveled to get here – the hell you have been through. So, you have your own unique perspective and a wealth of knowledge, which is incredibly valuable to you and others. Living a good life, the best you can, doing no harm to others, is a commendable position – one which you should feel honorable to lead. Love yourself and lift yourself.

Never judge your worth based on the opinions of others – they can never know you, truly, or even begin to understand. Look at yourself and recognize what you see for who you are. Only you are responsible for finding a way to stand again, each time you are knocked down. And, you will be – many times throughout your life. If you are fortunate, someone may take your hand and help you but that is a luxury and one you cannot depend on. The only person you can ever depend on is yourself. Given that, don’t you dare betray yourself by giving up now – after all that you’ve already been through.

You will love and be loved in this life. You will hurt and be hurt. You will fall and you will make mistakes, but we all will. In life only two things matter: consequences, and how you make amends. Intending to do the right thing, or say the right thing, has no bearing on reality whatsoever. The only consolation it gives is in knowing, for ourselves, that we tried to do the right thing. It does not excuse us from seeking forgiveness, where appropriate.

Walk your own path. Trust yourself. Care for yourself. Because you are deserving, because others love you, and we feel pain when you do. Sincerely. Let yourself freely give and accept affection. Make the world a better place. Love.
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Their is a lot of insight there sounds like youve got it together , you must have made mistakes and learned from them, my father once told me that you will always have problems in life and how you deal with them is what makes them a problem or solution i live by that.

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your story is so good to hear for me,hope you go well in your life and remember the happiness all the way

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So nice,so nice.<br />
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as you says,<br />
No one knows the road you have traveled to get here – the hell you have been through. So, you have your own unique perspective and a wealth of knowledge, which is incredibly valuable to you and others. Living a good life,<br />
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And you says so nice:<br />
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Never judge your worth ba<x>sed on the opinions of others.<br />
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And You says,<br />
true<br />
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Walk your own path. And find out what you want. <br />
Nice to meet you,friend

This is so so true!!!!! Sometimes I fill like I’m try to change the world and everybody looks at me with a weird face like I was a freak or something. Then I find myself alone and most of the time I give up. This post is definitely something inspirational that gives us motivation to move on and to fight for what we believe. And is so easy to forget though……...<br />
Loved it

Loved the article...your words are deep, yet perception will be interpeted at different levels by many..BUT..that is a good thing. Each of us must learn who and what we are about, only then will we be able to love and understand with empathy and apathy of those that come into our lives. This is our one shot at this world, and we must savor it , as life is a learning experience and the more positive we see our life, the more positive it becomes....Make each day your best regardless..the negative helps us to appreciate the positive..

Loved the article...your words are deep, yet perception will be interpeted at different levels by many..BUT..that is a good thing. Each of us must learn who and what we are about, only then will we be able to love and understand with empathy and apathy of those that come into our lives. This is our one shot at this world, and we must savor it , as life is a learning experience and the more positive we see our life, the more positive it becomes....Make each day your best regardless..the negative helps us to appreciate the positive..

Beautiful said and true.

Wonderful words of encouragement for us all. Thank You for sharing.

Life hit me recently after years of no hope in anything. The words you just said mean a lot so thank you so much for this. Music didnt help as much today and I'm happy that I saw this in my email!<br />
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Thanks again for a good heartfelt reminder!

Life hit me recently after years of no hope in anything. The words you just said mean a lot so thank you so much for this. Music didnt help as much today and I'm happy that I saw this in my email!<br />
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Thanks again for a good heartfelt reminder!

What a wonderful New Year gift!

Great post. Please keep them coming. Thanks.

This is well written and worth reading even tough what you wrote doesn't really reflect the easy journey through life with Jesus as a companion and my wife and family. I say this even though I lost a house to foreclosure, went bankrupt, and a three business failures and so forth.

Your article could not have come at a better time for me. I am experiencing financial problems & I can't seem to find my way out. At the moment I have a part-timer job to supplement my pension, but I don't know how long I will be able to keep my job as I am getting near 75 years old. My current situation is certainly testing my faith in God. <br />
However, there is a broight side. I have many good friends in the neighbourhood & at church & although they don't know of my situation I feel they are supporting me. Also I don't pray for a win on tje lottery, I just give thanks that God is at my side sustaining & comforting me.<br />
I also believe this to be a time of catharsis. In my life I have taken things too much for granted & being single has made me selfish & reckless at times. As I see it, things will get worse before they get better. I hope I have the faith to see it through & that will have learned my lesson.<br />
Thanks for sharikng your thoughts. They have given me much comfort

love it!

This is beautiful and true. It is perfect for the new year.

Wow..my thoughts came right out of you mouth. So great to meet positive people. Its all about attitude isn't it?! U can fall and then u have a choice, to lay there and be hopeless or to get back up, and believe me, sometimes getting back up takes about a million tries, and try to pick up right where u left off. I like to look at every experience, good or bad, as a new life lesson.

Wow..my thoughts came right out of you mouth. So great to meet positive people. Its all about attitude isn't it?! U can fall and then u have a choice, to lay there and be hopeless or to get back up, and believe me, sometimes getting back up takes about a million tries, and try to pick up right where u left off. I like to look at every experience, good or bad, as a new life lesson.

this is all so true! it deserved to be in the most inspirational stories of 2011!

You, sir, are a very wise person..<br />
You have such a gift that you can really touch many hearts & souls just by reading your writings.<br />
that, in itself, is wonderful, and love-able to be shared too~<br />
thank you for sharing!..

Very wise thought

Awesome. Just what I needed to read tonite for inspiration. Thank you and keep writing.

fantastic reminder.

Wow! Good post.

this is awesome

Very beautiful post..thank you for sharing...

this is such an inspiration. :) wonderfully written. ^.^