Ending Of A 21 Year Relationship. Help Me

Tonight is the ending of a 21 year relationship, yes that is correct 21 years, 1 child together and 1 a piece before we met. How do I began? Someone please help me. This was the lase stram of cheating. He is gone. We ended it tonight by my say so, but I enedon't know know to begin the process of not blaming myself even though I'm not the one that cheated on a 21 year marriage. Please help me stop crying someone.

emrumph emrumph
41-45
2 Responses May 7, 2012

How old is your child? My father divorced my mother at your age. He cried for months. But in the end he looks more happy now than he ever looked in the marriage. I'm young, way too young to give creditable advice... But just know it'll all turn out better in the end. Good for you for having the courage to "end it" if you both still love eachother what about relationship therapy / counseling for you both?

Please, we need to talk and find the whole issue. It is not good to end it this way.