I Want Children and My Husband Doesn't!
My husband and i have been happily married for 3 years and were together for four years before marriage. I was always under the impression that we would have children at some stage. He always said one day maybe, which i guess at 24 years and getting married it is a maybe. Recently a lot of my friends have started families. When people have asked us if we are having a family i have always said maybe one day, and never thought anything of it. But lately i have decided that i would really like to have children. i told my husband one morning that i would really like to have a family and to my shock he said "well i don't". I asked him why and he said i just don't. He was un willing to talk about it. i feel his feelings for not wanting children are based on financial reasons as well as materialistic. i believe he would be a great father but it might take having his own for him to realise how awesome it can be. i don't want to lose my husband i love him so much, but i also feel a great desire to have children.