ok so my husband has a small son from a previous relationship. we dated for one year, got engaged. Then married 8 months later. We will have been together for 2 years this december of 09. The problem is as follows, eventhough some may say 2 years is not enough time to have a baby i have always been ready to start a family. I was never a ''cluby party' girl. And now that i have found the right person even more so. The sad part of this story is i DESPERATELY craved a little baby of my own and may of this year i had gotten pregnant by accident. After 3 months i found out my baby had cystic hygroma and terminated the pregnancy. (there were 2 tumors in with the baby and it was basically 100% chance the baby would come with health problems and not live). It was the most awful thing i had to do and i was only 3 weeks away from my wedding. STRESS! In the first drawer of my night table i keep my baby books, the pregnancy test i had taken and a few other ,,,i thought would be treasured memories. he says we should have time to be married because he has never been this happy with a significant other. I dont know how reliable his promses are as he had promised we would try after marriage since i had lost the baby and because i wanted one so bad. to make matters worse can you believe 4 of our closest couple friends are pregnant. I am happy for them but it is a constant reminder everytime i see them. Everytime i go anywhere and see a baby i smile....and take a few deep breaths. every time.