I Want A Baby

I dont care if have to a be one time prostitute and get pregnant and not know who the father is. i want a baby. I dont care if ive never had a boyfriend and never had sex. I want a baby. I dont care if the father is a total *** and doesnt want to be in my childs life i will raise him or her myself. Though it would be nice to have help the point is I just dont care i want a baby. I wouldnt steal a baby though that has crossed my mind im not that desperate and i dont want to go to jail. But i would love to have one. And falling in love with the man of my dreams would be nice to but thats another story
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7 Responses Jul 23, 2010

When you have a baby you can't sleep pee shower poop eat or anything else when u want to. To get ready to go somewhere it takes about two more hours than it normally would. Finding a babysitter is hard it really takes more than one person to raise a baby. Babies on average pee 24+ times a day that means they pee atleast once every hour. Diapers and formula are expensive. If u breastfeed the baby he or she poops every time u feed it which can be every hour. So what money u saved from bfing u will spend on diapers. A can of formula cost $33. Babies will go through that in a bout two weeks or less. Babies grow everyday so they will grow out clothes fast. Sometimes your baby will cry for no reason and there will be nothing you can do for it but hold the baby. Your body will never be the same after carrying and having a baby. Stretch marks veins that won't go away. Plus being a single mom on top that it's goin be hard finding a guy who will date u. Much less marry you for a while anyways. All the things you want to go to you won't be able to go to pro<br />
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You need to watch some birthing videos including c section. You usually get stitched up even when u have a natural birth bc of being cut down there or tearing down there. You can bleed up to 4 months after having the baby. Your boobs sag they're not perky anymore afterbirth. I don't mind all of this bc I'm an adult and married and I'm selfless enough to go through all of this for another human being that I will take care of for the rest of my life. I have the means to take care of a baby too and have support from the dad. You need to google live birth videos. Watch them. Also look up what ur body goes through to bring the baby into the world.

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When you have a baby you can't sleep pee shower poop eat or anything else when u want to. To get ready to go somewhere it takes about two more hours than it normally would. Finding a babysitter is hard it really takes more than one person to raise a baby. Babies on average pee 24+ times a day that means they pee atleast once every hour. Diapers and formula are expensive. If u breastfeed the baby he or she poops every time u feed it which can be every hour. So what money u saved from bfing u will spend on diapers. A can of formula cost $33. Babies will go through that in a bout two weeks or less. Babies grow everyday so they will grow out clothes fast. Sometimes your baby will cry for no reason and there will be nothing you can do for it but hold the baby. Your body will never be the same after carrying and having a baby. Stretch marks veins that won't go away. Plus being a single mom on top that it's goin be hard finding a guy who will date u. Much less marry you for a while anyways. All the things you want to go to you won't be able to go to pro<br />
Paries dates concerts etc etc

hey <br />
ok i am not trying to b mean or anything so i am sorry if i am going to come off that way but you are only what 16 or 17 yrs old? i am assuming you are still in high school and i'm sure still live with your parents. <br />
honestly at 16 or 17 yrs old you are not ready to have a baby considering you are still a kid ur self. you may have a job you may not but honestly do you know how hard it would be to raise a child and how much is cost to raise a child? you are still in high school and honestly if you have a child while u r still in school there is a very high chance you will drop out of school just so you can take care of ur child. <br />
that will make your life so much harder because you wont have the education you need to get a job someday. i honestly think you should wait! you have your whole life ahead of you to meet the guy of ur dreams and start a family with him LATER ON in life. <br />
i mean i am almost 20 and would love to have a baby with my bf more then anything but i know for not only myself but for him as well we are not ready to have a baby right now nor do we have the money to raise a child considering he is in the navy and i have just joined and he does not make enough money right now to be abel to really afford a child. so for myself as well as him we are going to wait a few more yrs and then see where it goes from there. <br />
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i hope you really take to heart what i said and really think about all of it b 4 you go and make the decision to bring a baby into this world<br />
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chels

i want a baby too, but i think the steps of finding someone you love to have it with and marrying em, and deciding together that your ready are important :D<br />
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when i find the woman i want to have a baby with i think first her and i should adopt a dog and take care of it, so that both of us know we can handle the responsibilities of nurturing another life, but a pet wouldn't suffice for very long :P i'd still wanna baby :D i love the idea of raising a little person that is half of me and half of her(the beautiful, sweet, funny, kind, smart, sensitive, warm, nurturing mystery woman i have yet to meet :P) and watching our little person grow into a big person. oh wow :D it will be soooo great!!!! i can't wait til i find the person that i will start a family together with