Desperately Seeking Delivery

Hello, I am a 33 yr old female, in a long term relationship with a 42 yr old male. I have been VERY vocal about my want to get married and have a baby, and am trying to figure out how to get out of my current relationship because I know he can't give me what I need. I tried to leave a few weeks ago, but he convinced me to stay by saying he wants to get married and have a baby. I'm so confused, and know that I need to leave in order to get what I want, but I'm also scared. Any advice would be welcome and appreciated.
jmd79 jmd79
31-35, F
1 Response Nov 29, 2012

Well jmd, that's a difficult situation to be in. I'm really sorry to hear that you're in such a tough spot. Do you believe that he is being honest about wanting to get married and have a child, or do you suspect that he's only saying that to keep you around? And in the end, do you love him? Do you want him to be the father of your baby?

Sorry to ask so many questions, but I tend to think only you can know what to do here - the only thing people like me can do is lead you to figure out what that is. Hope that makes sense.