Just Waiting

I really just want a baby. My boyfriend is staying at his sister's house right now, and she has two little girls and a 7 month old boy. And after babysitting and staying with them, he always says that he wants a kid. So we both do. But right now, it would be so inconvenient. We're both just starting school again, and we both broke and besides, we're not married yet. We plan to get married in about 2 years. Another complication is that we haven't even had sex yet, haha. (we're waiting until we're married). So once we do get married, we kind of just want to spend some time together, like a year or two. Just to be married to each other and enjoy it. But we both really want kids, so who know how long we will actually wait. We'll just have to see I guess.
jaisikae jaisikae
26-30, F
1 Response Aug 10, 2007

It's good that you want to wait until you are married. It was my plan too. Hard. Just don't wait to much with a child. I met my husband in 2001. We married in 2004. We have been trying for more than a year. Now I wish we had started a family when we started our marriage. Maybe we had already a child.