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I Want a Boyfriend

How Do People Meet?

By: jayci1984
Written on July 10th, 2012
It seems to be the best kept secret that the whole world is in on but me :(. Im not going to be self deprecating because Im a not a bad guy. That said, even ugly, ignorant, lazy, abusive men who are sexually insufficient seem to find someone who falls deeply in love with them. But maybe that where I've gone wrong, women SAY they want a good man, but maybe love is more powerful than what a man can develop himself to be. I'm 36 now and all my life its elluded me. At school girls always said I was the cute one but they wouldn't date me, at university the hottest girls (with boyfriends) liked me, at work I was voted the most desired man 2 years running - but these girls would chase me till we have sex then go back to their abusive ex's. Girls don't dig me as much these days but either way its never made a difference. Love is everywhere why can't I have some?
By: jayci1984
Age: 36-40 , Male
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  • Maleinegypt
    Maleinegypt

    People are intimidated by more attractive people of the opposite sex, models tend to have hard time finding dates, its because they are too attractive that guys estimate their chances to be minimal, and it is no secret we avoid rejection.



    Try doing more social activities such as going to the gym or something, and be who you are when interacting with others.



    If this doesn't work then I suggest you read a book called the game and apply some of its techniques.



    Best wishes bro

    Jul 19, 2012
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    • jayci1984
      jayci1984

      Hi Maleinegypt, thanks for your suggestion, I'm a very active reader and I recall reading The Game by Neil Strauss about 5 years ago. It was very funny but Im not keen on manipulating women, that's how I used to do it - I'd much rather attract someone sincerely. I know it sounds idealistic, but I see it all around me

      Jul 20, 2012
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