"I Want a Boyfriend"

I have been single for over 4 months now and I am ready to start dating. I have a lot of things going on right now and I don't get out and mingle like I should. My friends all laugh and tell me that a boyfriend is not going to show up on my doorstep! I just don't like the bar scene and at my age its hard to find middle aged single men. Seems like the single ones that are my age are dating the young mid twentish hottie types or looking for a much younger woman to be with. The guys that seem to be attracted to me are always at least 10 years older than me! I'm not sure how to get back into the dating scene again. Its very awkward!


I wrote this story over a year ago and I did date someone for a short time and now I am single again. I am glad to be single at this time in my life. It's my sons last year of highschool and I am working so much now like 6 days a week. I really don' t see where I would even have time to get involved with anyone. I am very content right now. I think those feelings of loneliness pass and you get used to being on your own.

cmost cmost
36-40, F
2 Responses May 6, 2007

Im the same way,im a single dad and need to meet someone.I spend all my time taking care of my little one so i to do get out much to meet anyone....

You need a YOUNG PUP, luv!! He needs to be at least 10 yrs. YOUNGER than you! Nothing relights that feminine fire like a stud pup that worships you like FINE WINE!! I STILL remember being a goddess to THAT YOUNG MAN!! WOW! I gotta turn the A.C. up! lol