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Always Alone

I'm a hopeless romantic. I have wanted a boyfriend since about the second grade, and nothing. I'm in college now and still alone and it feels like it will always be that way. I just want someone to validate me, to talk to, to share my secrets with, and to hold.
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i feel you. =|

same here

Call me 9038410479

yup any one out thre i need a girlfriend hate being a lone all the time

Am in the same boat my dear..the bad part is i have never had a boyfriend in the past.am in college..& there a numbr of guys who like me but i dnt like them to a point where i can date them..it realy sucks.all my friends think am weird cs i dont like guys anyhow.but ryt now am realy looking foward to openin up to alot of people...who knos i myt jst find the love of my life..& u wil find urs soon..All the Best to u!!!

Best place to meet new people is the gym, go exercise there with seductive clothing in a time where people tend to exercise, and with a steady routine you are guaranteed to find someone within three months.<br />
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If you do this let me know how it turned out, also try to make eye contact when possible.

I know exactly how you feel. I'm already 22 and have never had a boyfriend. I just want someone to talk to when no one else is there for me.

i know exactly how you feel i;m the same way...

Only if you could see how wrong I am for most. But I am looking for the very something just sexed opposite. I MAY BE AS SENSITIVE AS A FEMALE SOMETIMES BUT REALLY I AM A MAN ALL MAN EVEN THE STUPID PARTS LIKE WEIRD FETISHES .. AND WEIRD DENIABILITIES LIKE THE MADE UP WORD I AM SURE I HAVE A SHORT CUT WHILE WERE DRIVING THAT WILL TRIPLE OUR ARRIVAL TIME BUT WE WOULDN'T NOTICE BECAUSE THE CABIN WOULD BE FILLED WITH LAUGHTER AND YES MORE STUPID SHYT BROUGHT TO YOU BY.. YEP YOU GUESSED IT.. ME!

Same boat darlin and im a boy, all ive ever done was try to be kind and it turns out all the dicks and arseholes get the girls :( maybe we should chat ...

You are not only. Inside all of us we want to love and be loved in return. This is true even in those who sometimes bash on love and relationship. We are designed to form relationships or better yet create these magical connections that enables us to get closer to something or someone. Honestly, as cliche as it may sound sometimes the best relationships are the ones that happen on its own. I know its diffcult to be patient and sometimes one can lose faith that someone worldwide will come around. But believe me, they will come. When you least expect it. <br />
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In the mean time, have fun enjoy your college years, get involved, meet people! The right one will come around eventually. <br />
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A hopeless romantic to another hopeless romantic =)

You girls/ladies that want to talk and/or share:<br />
try: bill: twildbill5@yahoo.com

u might want to join a club of interest,academic,dance, young republicans, etc.<br />
Good luck and avoid guys like me that would love to take advantage.lol

The thing about relationships is that we gotta learn first to be alone, to feel happy and fulfilled being alone, so you don't feel happiness depends on the other person, not needy on him, we all need a complement, somebody to share our passions, our joy and sadness, but we gotta learn to trust ourselves first, to be confident, and believe that there's somebody out there who's the ideal for this moment of life, we shouldn't lock ourselves in that feeling of loneliness, heartache, eternal longing, but to enjoy everything else that life offers, and when you less expect it, when life seem all joy, tranquility, adventure, fun, then you're ready to share all that with someone else, and if you see a romantic movie, you just should get dreamy, believe, and fantasize but not idealize, and just feel all that romance going through your veins... just be yourself, enjoy yourself, and cherish yourself... Luck and Peace, <br />
Joy

when am i going to find my prince charming...does someone really exist for me...

well.....you can make them love if you want.....let's talk more at shrirajsg at rocketmail dot com....we can talk more....i think help you

No one can or should validate you. You are that you are, that is enough.

Yeah, right now I feel I could do with one aswell.

I understand that you want a boyfriend but you never need a guy or anyone in life to validate you.

Hi, I'm a single guy (almost 24), INFP (look up MBTI if you don't know personality types). I'm laidback and appreciate alone time just as much as spending time with my friends. I'm fairly easy-going (enjoy most activities - when I'm with friends - although I'm not too fond of anything that involves swimming). I'm also quite ambitious. Will be studying counselling at college this year. I study success, and have a blog www.lovesuccess.wordpress.com (you can also find 'lovesuccess' on facebook.<br />
I'm generally non-judgemental (will accept you as you for you) will also be honest if you ask me how you look, because I care. Although I'm not materialistic. I am a great friend and companion, who will treat you well, love and respect you and let you make your own decisions.<br />
I'm looking for a girl who is a peacemaker, laid back, loving and comfortable being herself.

That could have come straight out of my mouth. I'm exactly the same. I feel like a relationship is what I've always wanted the most, and even though I have a nice life with family, friends etc. I still feel really lonely without a guy. I'm in college now too and it seems like as you get older there are more and more couples everywhere, Almost all my friends are in relationships and stupid relatives have even started grilling me about why I dont have a boyfriend! Sucks! <br />
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Kaya

peace be on you!<br />
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you dn't need a boyfrnd but a friend<br />
with whome you can share your secrets and stories..<br />
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if you are intented to have sex.. i'll suggest you to go for legal sex by finding a good guy and get married to him..<br />
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thatz the best solution<br />
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and the society around you if have boyfriend take a look on them they don't have any purpose except to think like this change your society<br />
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join a society of thinking people who need to solve the problems of societies all around

Correct, I agree :)

I wouldn't rush it. And when you do find the guy of your dreams, do everything it takes to keep him. Us guys need not only physical gratication, but emotional as well. We just don't always let you know when we arn't being fulfilled.

I think you can read some articles about how to build your confidence in both your external and internal beauty. Oh, please don't misunderstand my meaning. I never mean you are not attractive. But an improvement in your self-confidence can help you to be more charming. Believe me! And actually, I am looking for a boyfriend, too. I look a little younger than what I should be at such an age. I mean, look like a senior high school girl. It's indeed a pity! I am wondering how to look mature. Because my male friends say that I can look better if more mature. Now, I am trying getting to know someone online. I mean, on some dating sites. Maybe I will meet someone there, not just boyfriend. If you don't mind, I recommend the one which I register: www.CNCupid.com/i/blog . For more, you can contact me. Good luck then

I'm not sure but every guy I've heard just don't show how much they care about their girl. On the other side I have heard some girls talk about their boyfriends as well and got me wondering how that guy could be like that.<br />
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I love to just hold my girl close to me and just do some nice stuff or just simply watch a movie in my bedroom with her whilst we're just laying besides eachother. <br />
And I dunno but I'm sure at least half of all guys are like that as well :)<br />
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I guess just be patient and you'll find someone ^^

Hmmmm I am almost the same way... I never had a bf but then again I never wanted one until college. Go figure... I strongly believe that thier is someone out there for everyone you just have to be patient, approachable and open! <br />
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~ Hope this helped....

i want a bf too,and i wanted one since forever

Hello, thought I'd comment. I am a 20 year old guy and have never had a girlfriend. I am a really nice person, the problem is I am very shy and not very social. I still have hope I will find a girl I can love, but it is kinda slipping away. I know how you feel and I know what you mean when you say most guys are dickheads. Just keep your head up and always hold onto hope and your inner strength.

Awwww :( dont feel bad....Theres some 1 in store for ya.... I'm just the same way,Every time I get a boyfriend they cheat on me for some reason....I hope I helped u

I know, how that feels. But usually 99.9% of guys are complete dicheads. I know better than anyone how awful it feels when you see your freinds all cuddling up to their beaus, and they are ostentatiously talking about the "latest" romantic thing he has done or bought. But look on the upside; U don't have to go through the heartahes of break ups, and you don't have to worry about being labelled "promiscious" or "frigid". And as for wanting a guy to to validate your self worth, that would have to be u'r biggest mistake- when u rely on others to make u feel better about urself. Infact u may even come out feeling worse, because u will feel like everytime u see him u have to look ur best, which might evn inhibit intimacy. So sweetheart, my advice would be u needn't look for a bf, he is probably the one looking for u. I really do hope u find happiness and get fulfillment. mwa tc