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Lonely World

 I'm sick of never receiving love and affection. I just really want someone to romantically like me. All of my friends are always in relationships. I just wish that I could have a boyfriend too. All I want in life is to be in a commited relationship. However, guys tend to be turned off by my reserved nature. Guys don't like me. They only seem to like the super flirtatious women. I'm waiting for a guy who doesn't fall for the easy ones. However, i'm getting tired of waiting and getting upset. I'm a pretty, it's just that guys my age tend to be turned off by women who don't physically arouse them.
Either0r Either0r 16-18, F 9 Responses Jul 23, 2007

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Your probably in high school, maybe you`ll go to college and if you do remember you`ll meet the perfect guys. I was 16 when I started at university, but in my several fallen in love and be broken by girl exactly like you, ignored in highschool but desired here. There will always be shalllow men but there are those who will want you and your mystery. When I met the woman i loved she was shy, mysterious and reserved. I broke those barriers because I wanted to understand her. You cannot let hope go keep on focusing one day things will turn around.

So basically you want guys to keep pursuing you while you keep shoving them away. If you truly want to be with a guy then instead of have them hitting on you you hit on them, pick a guy that seems like a nice person and talk to him, guys tend to be attached to girls pretty quickly once they get some attention.<br />
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If you can't find someone you want to be with then wait, you are still very young and haven't been exposed to the actual life ahead of you, all guys at your age are just horny boys, none of them are mature enough to be considered men.<br />
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Either0r I really wish you the best wishes with your situation, please let me know if my advice helped.

I know what you mean I am 34 and never had a boyfriend. I think I will never have one. Men don't like women who are physically stronger than try are. Will that me, I am stronger than must men I know. Hence being alone and feeling unlovable.

i am smiling and smiling and smiling and thinking what to answer u but just wana tell u something that never let ur soul down as Allah made the pair of u for sure but u need to wait and look for it and when the time will be right u will see ur desire in front of u in a blink, just keep enjoying life the best way u can dear and good luck)

I'm the same. I'm 27 now and never had a boyfriend. I've been crying everyday. I've been asking God why he is doing this to me if he exists.

A lot of guys love reserved girls, they enjoy the challenge of bringing a woman like that out of her shell, making her laugh and generally being the reason she's having a good time. It's a rewarding feeling for us men. That being said, you may want to try to convey to the population at large that you're open to being approached, and this is best accomplished by smiling at anyone who so much as glances in your general direction ( hyperbole of course, you don't want to look creepy...also don't smile at people who look creepy themselves, for obvious reasons) The key is to be approachable because often reservedness can come across as unfriendly or cold. Good luck w/ everything, hope you meet someone nice soon!

A lot of guys love reserved girls, they enjoy the challenge of bringing a woman like that out of her shell, making her laugh and generally being the reason she's having a good time. It's a rewarding feeling for us men. That being said, you may want to try to convey to the population at large that you're open to being approached, and this is best accomplished by smiling at anyone who so much as glances in your general direction ( hyperbole of course, you don't want to look creepy...also don't smile at people who look creepy themselves, for obvious reasons) The key is to be approachable because often reservedness can come across as unfriendly or cold. Good luck w/ everything, hope you meet someone nice soon!

Stop looking and searching, only then will your prince arrive, Just remember this, if you meet your man in a pub, club or any where that sells alcohol, your chances are you will end up with no roof over your head and not a pot to **** in, go to places where nice people hang out that dont want anything from you but your company, I am sure you will find someone to share your life with, some times we have to wait untill the timing is right, maybe your times not now. xx

Naw, you'll find the most wonderful boyfriend soon; I'm sure. You are way too good for those guys who only like super-flirtatious women!

They say good things come to those who wait.....you should keep your self esteem high (to prevent settling for the "less good" people who could use you) and you will find a person who will connect to YOU as an individual, not purely just physical attraction, then chill and relax as all the people who have been more shallow then you have had to learn to be flounder as their more physically based relationships flounder as they grow old!! £;^)