I am new to this site with hopes to find out about using a foley catheter . I currently use an external cath to manage my urge incontinence, but for the past two years I have been wanting to try a Foley, but the thought of UTI has held me back. I understand many men are using them even without any medical need. For me the desire has built to the point that I am wondering if it is becoming a fetish with me. I would like to hear the reasons why you other men are catheterizing yourselves.