I know that every marriage has issues, but when I married my husband I thought it would be for the rest of my life, through good times and bad. We had some problems at first because I was going to school full time and he wasn't working, but then when he finally found a job, he stopped coming home. I couldn't reach his phone and I waited for over a month, crying myself to sleep each night while holding onto my one-year-old son. At last, he came home, and I was so happy to see him. And then I found at that he had been having an affair. He had told me before that the reason why he was not coming home was because this job made him work ridiculous hours and that he was staying at his supervisor's house so he could get some sleep. He had actually been living with this other woman. He informed me that he was no longer in love with me and that he had fallen head-over-heals madly in love with her and that she was carrying his child. I have filed for divorce and he is still living with her. He told me today that he loves her more than he has ever loved anyone and he wants to marry her. This is the hardest thing that I have ever had to go through. I am grieving but I believe that my healing is on the way.