LONELY

IT IS ALWAYS GOOD TO HAVE A FRIEND TO TALK TO--MALE OR FEMALE. I WENT TO VERY MANY SITES ON THE INTERNET-- A LOT OF THEM ARE BAD. I HAVE SETTELED ON THIS SITE. IT MAKES ME FEEL COMFORTABLE. DON'T WANT A GIRLFRIEND. JUST WANT TO TALK.

vetro vetro
51-55, M
11 Responses Feb 27, 2009

so many people just want to talk and get it out like I do nothing els nothing more are you ready to talk and be serious. serious only please.......................

hi Im just looking for some friendship nothing more, I do have a husband but sometimes it would be lovely to talk to someone about things that worry me, plus I would also like to maybe help or talk to someone else maybe with the same thoughts or feelings. Shaz

I understand about bad sites. Every time I just want to talk on a friend site, it turns out to be a site where people talk about crap. We live in a very bad world and can expect only bad. Yet there are still some good people out there. Finding them is hard.

Hi ! I have the same thing. Can we talk?

Hello, I have become a lonely housewife and mom! I dont even know where to begin, we moved so son could go to college, even before we moved i felt lonely, what the heck is wrong with me, i hate being alone, but at the same time i dont want just anyone to come over, i am a weirdo, i m sick of the tv, i have no friends, everytime i get a friend they fall in love and ya never hear from them again, so here i sit as usual, and now im 54 and going out to a bar is a depressing thought, i want to learn to blog for money, if i had some money, maybe i could take myself or family somewhere fun, i dont even have gas money, im stuck at home everyday alone, im sick of my own company! really, whats the point in life if you cant enjoy ANYTHING! Im sick of being broke, im sick of being poor, does anyone know how where i could blog for $$$ ? Theres a concert at the park tonite, i feel weird going alone, i want a close friend i can tell anything to, someone who needs a close friend to, i want to be needed. not needed for a ride, or money, or whatever someone else wants to get them to a good time, and i get left behind and alone, are some people born to be alone, no matter what, i have 2 kids 21 and 22 theyr never hear, and when they are they cause me grief and care not of how im feeling, and i know, its not their problem, they are to young to understand, gosh, i feel like im hitting my head against a wall!! Most people know eventually what to do, i dont, i dont even really know who i am, when my hubby comes home hes tired, so i sit alone some more! i have a nice vette, i used to go drive it, now its boring cruising town, and i feel bad to cruise it anyway as the economy is so bad and i feel like im rubbing it in people's faces, o look at me in my vette while everyone including me is struggling, i cant afford to drive it anyways, and it doesnt make me feel good anymore anyways,i cant believe how people want to be your friend supposedly, and its all about you and them, and you think you've found a friend, then they meet some guy for the first time, and in 5 minutes there gone out of your life with that guy, they dont even call me! whats up with that? most people seem un genuine to me anymore, no deep hearts, just frosty friendships anymore, I stay because i dont want to hurt my beautiful kids and my beautiful husband, but im dieing inside, maybe growing old is hard and lonely, but getting to the end should be welcoming!! gosh! i hope things are different for me on the other side someday! i am looking forward to it! Isnt that pathetic!! when most look forward to good times and have hope for the next day will be better, it doesnt, its groundhog day for me every damned day!! im sick of it, how does one function, im at a loss here and WHY, WHY cant i dig out of this place im at in my heart and mind!! I have become a smoker, its my only friend, it calms me down, for a second or so, i dont know, its gotta end soon, i just cant take it anymore!

you can always talk to me i love to talk

Your right this is a great site to make new friends and talk about things that are important to you welcome :)

BOOHOO42----DID YOU DO THE BEADING AND SOLD SOME OF IT? YOU SAID YOU THREW UP YOUR HANDS AND IT IS ALL GONE NOW.<br />
I AM SORRY THAT THEY BOTCHED UP YOUR HYSTERECTOMY. I KNOW IT MAKES YOU FEEL LIKE YOU CAN'T HAVE SEX BECAUSE YOU HAVE THE BOTCHED AREA. CAN'T GET INTIMATE BECAUSE IT MIGHT LEAD TO OTHER THINGS AND YOU DON'T WANT YOUR PARTNER TO SEE IT. HOW ABOUT ALL THOSE WOMEN BOTH YOUNG AND MIDDLE AGE THAT HAVE HAD CHILDREN. THAY HAVE FLAB AND WRINKLES. HOW DO YOU THINK THEY FEEL? ANSWER--- JUST LIKE YOU. I AM 52 YRS YOUNG. BUT I AM NOT PERFECT EITHER. WE ALL HAVE OUR PROBLEMS AS WE GET OLDER. GIT OVER IT !!!!! WHEN YOU FIND SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU--- NONE OF YOUR PERSONAL PROBLEMS WILL MATTER. LOVE YA !!!!!!!!!!!

you really made my day by writing to me, This menopause thing is really hard to deal with, emotions spilling all over the place, and it's uncontrolable. I feel so helpless most of the time, I mean at 45 we are suppose to be at least a bit comfortable with who we are and our lives. I am trly at a lost and feel i have lost my life, It does not feel like ny own any more. I started beading because i like to work with my hands, it worked for a moment. Kept me alittle closer to sanity. Noe i just look at the stuff. and throw up my hands. I even started selling a few things, felt good about it. Thatis all gone now and i don't know where to go from here. I am chemically imbalanced, that much i know, because i did research and have had a full hysterectomy. Plus they botched the surgery, so i look like a monster in my bottom region. From the stomach down. There are so many reasons for me to just give up, but i thank you for your kindness and taking time to share with me, I just hope i don't bore you to death with my problems, much love from my heart to yours friend. (hugs)

I am new to this site as well, I think what you wrote about I don't want a girlfriend is the best thing that you could have written as it show's that you are honest. I have found this site to be one of the best. People hear are very open and heartfelt, much like myself. I find that there is no judgment here and many of them are here to listen, give advice and just plain cheer you up. I know how you feel, in the lonely department. I work allot and don't have the chance to get out and make friends, it's not like you knock on someones door and say Will you be my friend' that was easy when we whre kids!