I Made a Comment But It Became So Extensive I Decided to Make It Into a Story TooGuy often feel that they fall in love with girls within three seconds of seeing them. That's not true. You are not in love, you are merely feeling physical attraction, which is something else. Males and females are very different beings. Males are primarily attracted to physical beauty. The personality of the girl is not that crucial as long as she is good looking, it's the truth. Women, on the other hand, are primarily attracted to the personality traits and behaviour of men. And that is good! That means you don't have to look like Johnny Depp or Orlando Bloom to get yourself a girlfriend. All it takes is self improvement and changing the way you think and the way you see yourself.
I would recommend that you check out the dating dvds and ebooks by David DeAngelo. He is a dating guru and you can learn how to improve yourself so that you BECOME attractive, rather than trying to MAKE women feel attraction to you by using simple pickup lines. Words are about 7% of your communication on the dating scene, there is a hidden language that is spoken using voice level and body language. It is crucial that you are happy with yourself and your model of reality. Why? Because everyone creates their own model of reality and you can't make your reality seem attractive to others if you are not happy with it yourself. Eliminate the thought of failure. Failure does not exist. It is just an opportunity to learn something new. Always behave like YOU are in control. Be calm at all times. OVERLY calm. Two personality traits that can be combined with powerful effect is being cocky and funny at the same time. Cocky and funny. I could go on and on! I am SERIOUS about this, you should definitely check out his material! David DeAngelo. I am watching the Double Your Dating dvds where he talks about his experiences and has guest speakers come and share their knowledge about how the male and female mind works. I have learned a lot. I am not trying to be a smart *** but being a shy insecure *** kisser just hasn't worked out for me. I will never turn into an inconsiderate *****, you can have self esteem without being a jerk. I merely consider this to be self improvement.
Wraither 22-25, M 12 Responses 2 Jan 1, 2008