I Just Want To Make You Smile

I don't think there is anything wrong with me... it just sucks that my opportunities are limited.

I get with girls every now and then but they are always from nyc clubs.

It's basically the only place were I have the opportunity to meet girls and those kinds of girls aren't really into relationships.... they just want to party.

Although they are hot as hell the majority are extremely plastic and pretentious.... that's not what I'm looking for.

I've stopped looking as a matter of fact and I always get fooled by some girls... it's whatever I suppose.

I'm down for fun as much as the next person but having someone to share your time with I feel to be just as good if not better.

I'm not an a**hole but I might as well be. There is no point in continuing the way I am.

I just want to make someone's life a little better... make them happy when they're down and glum... be there for them....

One night stands and weekend hook ups just aren't for me, I wasn't raised that way and I truly want to believe that I am not the only one that thinks this way.

This city seems devoid of other's like me. 

I suppose there is nothing left to do but adapt and conform in order to outperform the rest.

I love New York, but there really is no love in the heart of the city. 

Feel free to prove me wrong.
CorazonPartido CorazonPartido
22-25, M
4 Responses Jun 8, 2011

NYC is beautiful, I wish I could go down there every day, anyways, I think there is love, all around you, you just gotta look closer, if you want love, a club is not the place, try new things. Love it's hard to find, I'm only 18 and I don't know anything but the fact that it's a beautiful thing and I can't wait to find someone I could share it with, I hope you find your soulmate!

I echo your thoughts friend and personality. down here in fort lauderdale, about 2/3 the size of miami and north of miami, females always seem to want to party. when's the next house party or club event is always stuck on their minds. I personally blame it on the media. anyway, its a real drought for guys like us when it comes to real down to earth women who are serious and want a relationship. im thinking of turning over to the dark side as well but naturally I know if I do, it wont last. just like you im naturally a relaxed calm guy who doesn't partake in clubs and stuff like that so I guess we're stuck just waiting.

yeah, i feel u too bro. however i would be up for some one-night-stands though. hehe.

Aw, that's so sweet. You're like a rarity. Not that many men these days have that type of thinking where I'm from or anywhere else in the modern world (well the ones that do are already taken). You shouldn't just follow what others are doing. Just be you, I bet there is someone out there in NYC that can fit your standards (hot, likes to party every now and then, wants to be in a real relationship, not so plasticy lol) I'm pretty much going through the same thing as you but vice versa. The guys here are very....well many of them just want to have a good time even if they are committed to someone. I just want to find someone that I can not only call my lover but also my best friend. Don't give up. You just gotta know where to look.