Changing Anyone Doesn't Work

I want I guy to love me for me. In most (not all). People start to feel the need to try to change the way someone's personality or appearance. Hair and clothes, maybe some tv shows, etc. changes aren't always bad. But trying mold them into someone else is totally wrong. And usually the person who is trying to be changed is emotionally and mentally hurt more. 

LondonLisa LondonLisa
36-40, F
3 Responses Jun 13, 2007

what if you need to change for the better? what if you feel horrible about yourself? and all you want to do is change yourself, even if it's something your not?

I don't understand the "change" thing in relationships either...

It sounds like you had a bad experience. Do you want to talk about it?