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I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

Can't Have Both

By: wacky
Written on February 5th, 2008

 I had my bestfriend then we became lovers ( wrong thing to do). nothing was never the same afterwards.I love him dearly, still to this day.We don't talk like we did before , nothing isn't the same.

My hope is to find that person who could be both.I need to be like and love at the same time.someone to laugh,and cry with.someone to make love with and the next day would be stilll the same as before.

A friend and a lover.It could happen:)

By: wacky
Age: 36-40 , Female
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5 responses
  • donewiththis
    donewiththis

    OH yes--be patient-a best friend and a lover can happen-you have to let it happen naturally-let time take its course-oh it does happen!

    Feb 6, 2008
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  • wacky
    wacky

    I don't know what really changed.the communcation wasn't the same. Before we could talk about anything, afterwards I hardly talked at all.We use to pick on each other.it was nice. After we made love it just fell apart .Why ? I don't know.

    Feb 5, 2008
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  • Lexus
    Lexus

    I just really wonder if you have any idea what changed. Normally the next level adds to the intimacy and closeness....

    Feb 5, 2008
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  • wacky
    wacky

    I miss my best friend now.i wish we didn't take it to the next level.Maybe oneday.

    Feb 5, 2008
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  • Lexus
    Lexus

    It can happen...it did to me.



    Why have things changed for you? Do you have any ideas there?

    Feb 5, 2008
    2 likes