I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend

Lover And Friend

By: CMA1234

Written on December 12th, 2011

I want a guy who shares my interests and passions.
a soul mate who wants to do things with me,
share experiences.
to be the "other half " of me.

Some one I can trust completely,
whom I can confide in, and be myself,
no pretense,
Someone who doesn't want to rule or control me,
who just wants to be equal.
someone who knows what I'm thinking and how I'm feeling ,
as well as I know them.

By: CMA1234

Age: 46-50 , Female

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34 responses

chestar333

ok

Nov 1, 2012
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sssak

u know i loved a guy but he always rules over me.... i broke up wid him . nd now he z so shameless that the nxt day he proposed another gal .......... i told everything to my bst frnd .. he told me that he loves me ...... truly though m on a trial relatn wid my bst frnd bt i love the way he understands me...... he dnt rule me gives equal important to his family nd me.....

Sep 4, 2012
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Akatsuki10

i think i've found mine but he is my best friend.... has been since we were 3-4 years old.... im 16 now....

Jul 14, 2012
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- CMA1234
  Good for you I wish you all the luck in the world
  
  Jul 14, 2012
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- Akatsuki10
  thank you <3
  
  Jul 17, 2012
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StarMommyO

I know who my soulmate is. We both confirmed it. We talk EVERYDAY, yet we still aren't together as we have things in our lives to straighten out before that is possible. I am really looking forward to the first day of the rest of our lives together. Waiting for that day Is HARD too! :(

May 12, 2012
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- CMA1234
  You are very lucky to have found one another
  best of luck to you both
  
  May 12, 2012
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- StarMommyO
  I sometimes wonder if it is harder knowing who it is but not being able to be together or if you are just wandering around freely looking.
  
  May 12, 2012
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- cRea17
  Totally agree with that...
  
  Aug 3, 2012
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neverwannastop

I had this once, a long time ago and miss it a lot! Now I am stuck in a lonely marriage. Don't settle till you find it, we all deserve to be cherished and should be married to our best friend.

Apr 17, 2012
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paco35

Best wishes on your journey.

Jan 15, 2012
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- CMA1234
  Than you
  
  Jan 16, 2012
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rahulisfedup

goodluck <3

Jan 15, 2012
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billtkatt

I hope you find this. I have looked for 47 years and have yet to find it. Some deception always seems to enter the picture one way or another. I thought I had it but after a while when I would speak of my hopes and dreams, then came the "you dont love me" accusations. If i would speak of my goals and needs then it was "grow up". I just dont know anymore. I still HOPE its out there somewhere but at the same time I dont EXPECT to ever find it :-(

Jan 13, 2012
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Cyza3

I can't promise a lot of things maybe because i am human but i do know for such that if i am your man i will love you just the way you are, open my heart for you and i won't control you, for i know what people can do for freedom.

Jan 5, 2012
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- CMA1234
  Thank you
  
  Jan 6, 2012
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toistory

Now this doesnt seem like too much to ask for, even from Santa!

Dec 19, 2011
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- CMA1234
  I know you would not think it was
  
  Dec 19, 2011
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PSULLY63

OMG, thats what i am looking for in a woman. accepts me as my am and gets me ! well said !

Dec 13, 2011
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- CMA1234
  Thank you
  
  Dec 13, 2011
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ksparrow

Hard to find. Don't settle for less than what you want. He's out there. Trust me!

Dec 13, 2011
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- CMA1234
  I will not settle for less - Thank you
  
  Dec 13, 2011
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- ksparrow
  Just remember, "less" has a way of disguising itself. Sort it out, go for the "more!"
  
  Dec 13, 2011
  1 like
lexuslourve

OOh yes..so very true....and not easy to find one too... :)

Dec 13, 2011
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- CMA1234
  So true
  
  Dec 13, 2011
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Ellegacy

Tht gud. But soul mate is really challenging. Neverthless choice is what really matter.

Dec 13, 2011
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- CMA1234
  Yes it is - Thank you
  
  Dec 13, 2011
  1 like
Gr8white

My VIP friend is my best friend and also my lover. A girl can't ask for better. It is the best of two worlds.

Dec 13, 2011
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- CMA1234
  Yes It is the best of both worlds
  
  Dec 13, 2011
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RickiSchnucki

Good luck on that! I'm longing for such a partner all my life,

but I have nice friends to compensate that.

Dec 13, 2011
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- CMA1234
  Good luck also - But we also make our own luck
  
  Dec 13, 2011
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- RickiSchnucki
  I'm married since 27 years, I think nothing will change. ;-)
  
  Dec 13, 2011
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TheMadcapLaughs

Just hang in there sweetie. You'll find your soul mate soon.

Dec 12, 2011
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- CMA1234
  Thank you
  
  Dec 13, 2011
  1 like

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