My husband works continental shifts and is always tired. He hardly does anything around the house and when he does he ******* and complains. He starts a job and never finishes it and leaves the tools and supplies where the project is. He is starting to talk abusive to me when I ask him to do anything or he just says No.....I have been with him for 25yrs and it it's getting worse. I want to start a photography business in my home but it's such a mess I can't have customers in a house that has electrical wires hanging...cracks in the ceiling...mold in the bathrooms. I'm tired of complaining and I can't afford to pay someone to fix all the problems. The last time I complained he just said "I'm lazy....deal with it" I think I want to leave...it's just too much.