I Want a Lover Who Is Also My Best Friend
It's the mystery that brings a warm, fuzzy & sometimes a naughty feeling, the type that makes us feel like nothing in the world matters. It's so comples and powerful that it's the only "x-vaule" which remains unsolved in maths and the only element that does not appear on the periodic table....
Yes! It's the 4 letter word that is inter winded in our daily lives. Real love asks for nothing except harmony, equilibrium and to give without limitation, it also requires Belief, Courage & Understanding. The problem is not searching for love rather, it lies in the honesty and truth in love. The average person spends more time in trying to convince themselves whether or not, truth be told. Its a cross road leading to disaster in modern times.
On the one hand there is a higher possibility of rejection than acceptance. On the other, If the secret is kept, possibility is that one will never get a second chance. It's a feeling we can't control neither who we feel it for, but how do you know it's love? Is it when you can't sleep at night 'coz your dreams have come true? Or your heart skips a beat at the sight of the person? Is it when you have the most expensive dish on the menu on your night out? Or maybe it's people admitting you have a treasure they after? Is that love or materialism? In my opinion its fake!
Love is not a game you play and if this is your perspective you most certainly on the road called "Lust-Circle: it keeps you running in one direction". The truth of love is when your life takes a natural course.
You strive to do better, your face has this sparkle when that person is around and simply allowing those arguments to build your friendship. Love is about appreciating that person for being in your life whether or not there is communication.
It's about accepting them with their flaws & being the imperfect person who treats them perfectly. As you read this question yourself on love...
Think about it, have you ever admitted about your feelings? Or have you lay in bed at night with your mind wondering to "this" friend of yours. Or maybe u in a relationship but your mind seems to be occupied with the thoughts of someone else...
Unconditional love has nothing to do with sex or subjugation, it's about being completely selfless & focuses on the other. To be unloved leaves us in the world that is cold, feeling discarded. It is to suffer the loneliest of all fates & to be less human; miserable & disconnected.
No one deserves that type of treatment. We have this gift to spread with everyone who has an encounter with us, But why are we so cruel? Why have we allowed the world to be taken over by hatred and jealousy. We have lost the simplicity of love. Gone are the days where smiles would be shared with strangers and where one would offer a helping hand in need. It's all about competition now.
But what's the prize; your happiness at the expense of others? Today it's about having your ego boosted by belittling people or being so insecure you would go to the deepest lengths of judging the unnoticed everyday girl feeling something for the everyday noticed guy. So what if they feel that way, are they not human?
And one day when Karma takes it toll on you, you will be down in the gutters with no one around and that person will be your savior reminding you that "You are the reason you don't have love in your life; because You did something wrong".
Love 'coz you want to change things. Love will alter the way you see the world and through that way, the world is. Love to learn new things; meet new people and know others to understand. Love makes the world go round, it is why we are here and all searching for it
Yes! It's the 4 letter word that is inter winded in our daily lives. Real love asks for nothing except harmony, equilibrium and to give without limitation, it also requires Belief, Courage & Understanding. The problem is not searching for love rather, it lies in the honesty and truth in love. The average person spends more time in trying to convince themselves whether or not, truth be told. Its a cross road leading to disaster in modern times.
On the one hand there is a higher possibility of rejection than acceptance. On the other, If the secret is kept, possibility is that one will never get a second chance. It's a feeling we can't control neither who we feel it for, but how do you know it's love? Is it when you can't sleep at night 'coz your dreams have come true? Or your heart skips a beat at the sight of the person? Is it when you have the most expensive dish on the menu on your night out? Or maybe it's people admitting you have a treasure they after? Is that love or materialism? In my opinion its fake!
Love is not a game you play and if this is your perspective you most certainly on the road called "Lust-Circle: it keeps you running in one direction". The truth of love is when your life takes a natural course.
You strive to do better, your face has this sparkle when that person is around and simply allowing those arguments to build your friendship. Love is about appreciating that person for being in your life whether or not there is communication.
It's about accepting them with their flaws & being the imperfect person who treats them perfectly. As you read this question yourself on love...
Think about it, have you ever admitted about your feelings? Or have you lay in bed at night with your mind wondering to "this" friend of yours. Or maybe u in a relationship but your mind seems to be occupied with the thoughts of someone else...
Unconditional love has nothing to do with sex or subjugation, it's about being completely selfless & focuses on the other. To be unloved leaves us in the world that is cold, feeling discarded. It is to suffer the loneliest of all fates & to be less human; miserable & disconnected.
No one deserves that type of treatment. We have this gift to spread with everyone who has an encounter with us, But why are we so cruel? Why have we allowed the world to be taken over by hatred and jealousy. We have lost the simplicity of love. Gone are the days where smiles would be shared with strangers and where one would offer a helping hand in need. It's all about competition now.
But what's the prize; your happiness at the expense of others? Today it's about having your ego boosted by belittling people or being so insecure you would go to the deepest lengths of judging the unnoticed everyday girl feeling something for the everyday noticed guy. So what if they feel that way, are they not human?
And one day when Karma takes it toll on you, you will be down in the gutters with no one around and that person will be your savior reminding you that "You are the reason you don't have love in your life; because You did something wrong".
Love 'coz you want to change things. Love will alter the way you see the world and through that way, the world is. Love to learn new things; meet new people and know others to understand. Love makes the world go round, it is why we are here and all searching for it
By:
simplicity31
Age:
18-21
,
Female
